Cold PUDDING will settle your love

Meaning & Analysis

Eating cold pudding (a plain, unexciting food) is said to calm or diminish romantic passion or emotional excitement.

Insights

Dampening of Passion

The proverb metaphorically suggests that plain, mundane experiences (like eating cold pudding) can cool ardor or romantic enthusiasm, returning one to a more sober or practical state.

Reality Versus Idealism

It hints at how reality—represented by something unromantic or commonplace—often tempers or extinguishes lofty passions or ideals.

Physical and Emotional Association

The proverb relies on the folk belief that heavy, starchy, or cold foods have a physically dulling effect, paralleling the way everyday routines or disappointments can 'settle' (calm or subdue) the heart’s more fiery impulses.

Humorous Social Commentary

Often delivered with humor, the saying gently mocks excessive romance or emotional excess, prescribing a homely, literal 'cooling down' as the remedy.

Cultural Attitudes to Appetite and Emotion

The connection between food and love, appetite and passion, is a recurring theme in English proverbs, reflecting both caution about overindulgence and the realities of domestic life.

Rhetorical Devices

Metaphor

Uses 'cold pudding' as a metaphor for the ordinary or unexciting, representing reality’s power to moderate emotional extremes.

Irony

The advice is lightly ironic—offering an everyday, even comic, solution to a dramatic emotional problem.

Personification

Attributes agency to 'cold pudding,' humorously suggesting it has the power to 'settle' something as abstract as love.

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Analyzed with gpt-4.1 on July 10, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

Settle the Wit as Pudding settles Love.

1685, WESLEY, Maggots Tobacco Pipe, p. 41
1738, SWIFT, Pol. Conv., II, p. 440

Original Scan

Cold PUDDING will settle your love - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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