It comes by KIND,¹ it cost him nothing

Meaning & Analysis

A trait that is part of someone's intrinsic nature ('kind') is not something they had to purchase or acquire through effort; it is inborn.

Insights

Inherited Flaws

Primarily used to comment on negative characteristics or vices that are believed to be passed down from one's parents or ancestors, suggesting they are an inescapable part of one's character.

Nature vs. Acquisition

The proverb draws a sharp line between innate qualities and earned skills, highlighting that certain fundamental aspects of our personality are effortless and predetermined by our origins.

Character as Destiny

It implies a sense of fatalism, suggesting that people cannot easily escape the traits endowed by their lineage, for better or, more often, for worse.

Folk Heredity

The proverb reflects a folk understanding of heredity from a pre-genetics era, where observable family traits—especially negative ones, as the historical note indicates—were attributed to 'kind' or 'bloodline'.

Social Determinism

This proverb often functions as a tool for social judgment or fatalism. By attributing a person's faults to their lineage, it can serve to dismiss them as inherently and unchangeably flawed.

Psychological Rationalization

Psychologically, the saying can act as a defense mechanism. It explains away undesirable behavior as an inborn trait, thus absolving the individual of full responsibility and the observer of the need to intervene.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

The proverb's structure hinges on the sharp contrast between 'kind' (nature, inheritance) and 'cost' (effort, purchase), effectively highlighting the unearned quality of the trait.

Parallelism

The two balanced clauses create a memorable, rhythmic parallelism that gives the statement a sense of definitive, traditional wisdom.

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Transcription

Quotations

He hes it of kynd he coft [bought] it not.

a.1598, FERG., MS, no. 585

It commeth to him by kind, it cost him nought.

1616, DR., no. 1471
1623, CAM., p. 272

(him nought).

1639, CL., p. 168

(them nothing).

1659, N.R., p. 65
1670, RAY, p. 182

He hasn't a kind, he cost [bought] it not.

1721, KEL., p. 152

Spoken when People take after their Parents in ill Things.

*Note

What cometh by Kind, costeth nothing.

1732, FUL., no. 5484

Annotations

  1. nature

Original Scan

It comes by KIND,¹ it cost him nothing - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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