There is FALSEHOOD (flattery) in fellowship

Meaning & Analysis

Literally, the proverb states that dishonesty or insincere praise often exists within friendships or groups, warning that companionship does not guarantee truthfulness.

Insights

Deceptive Friendship

Suggests that relationships and camaraderie are frequently marred by hypocrisy, self-interest, or betrayal, and that even close companions may conceal their true motives.

Social Flattery

Highlights the prevalence of flattery—insincere praise or agreement—as a social lubricant, where people tell others what they want to hear rather than the truth.

Historical Symbolism

In early modern society, fellowship was highly valued, but also viewed with suspicion due to the ease with which alliances could conceal manipulation or self-serving deception. The proverb encapsulates this double-edged view of human connection.

Literary and Cultural Resonance

Repeated in both popular and literary sources, including Shakespeare’s reference to flattery in friendship, the saying reflects a long-standing awareness of the fragile boundary between genuine loyalty and opportunism.

Psychological Dimensions

The proverb addresses a core human anxiety—the uncertainty of others’ sincerity—and explores the psychological costs of mistrust and the social necessity (and risk) of tactful deceit.

Rhetorical Devices

Alliteration

The repeated ‘f’ sounds in ‘falsehood,’ ‘flattery,’ and ‘fellowship’ lend the proverb rhythm and memorability.

Antithesis

Juxtaposes the ideal of fellowship with the negative qualities of falsehood and flattery, dramatizing the contrast between appearance and reality.

Paradox

The assertion that even in friendship, falsehood thrives, makes the proverb thought-provoking and reflective of social complexity.

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Analyzed with gpt-4.1 on July 12, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

Falshode in fellowshyp is my sworne brother.

1533, SKELTON, Magn., s. C1V

If he plaie falshed in fellowshyp, plaie ye Se me, and se me not.

1546, HEY., II v, s. H2V
1562, HEY., Epig. 208, p. 160.

Alas! my Germanicus, are you to know . . the falsehood in friends?

1576, PETTIE, Pet. Pal., I 101

Haue I not also learned that . . there is falshood in fellowship?

1578, LYLY, Euph. Anat. Wit, p. 197

So yow by your reckles merit losing my loue, accuse an other of falshood in fellowship.

1583, MELBANCKE, Philot., s. R1V

I see all is not golde that glisters; ther's falshood in fellowship.

1599, H. PORTER, Two Women Ab. x, s. I3V
1614, CAM., p. 313.
1639, CL., s.v. Hypocrisis, p. 140.
1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 10.
1664, COD., p. 212.
1670, RAY., p. 88.
1732, FUL., no. 4894.

Shakespeare Citations

I will cap that proverb with ‘There is flattery in friendship.’

H5, III.vii

Cross References

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