To come in at the WINDOW (o'er the hatch)

Meaning & Analysis

To enter a house or building through an improper opening like a window or a service hatch rather than the main door.

Insights

Illegitimate Birth

The phrase is a euphemism for being born illegitimate. The 'window' represents an illicit union, and the child 'enters' the family through this unsanctioned, secret route rather than the legitimate 'door' of marriage.

Adultery and Cuckoldry

It refers to the act of adultery, where an illicit lover enters secretly ('through the window'), leading to cuckoldry and the potential for illegitimate offspring.

Dishonest or Improper Methods

More broadly, the proverb signifies achieving any status, position, or advantage through dishonest, underhanded, or unconventional means, bypassing the proper and accepted channels.

Architectural Metaphor for Social Order

The proverb's power lies in its architectural metaphor for social legitimacy. The 'door' symbolizes the sanctioned, public entry into a family and society via marriage, while the 'window' or 'hatch' represents a clandestine, illicit, and dishonorable entry, reflecting deep-seated anxieties about lineage and inheritance in patriarchal societies.

Literary Euphemism for Bastardy

The phrase was a common euphemism for illegitimacy in Elizabethan and Jacobean literature, notably used by Shakespeare in 'King John' to question a character's parentage. This highlights its cultural currency for addressing sensitive themes of bastardy, honor, and identity.

Psychology of Legitimacy and Shame

The proverb reveals a profound cultural anxiety surrounding paternity and the stability of the family line. The 'child that came in at the window' was a source of shame and social disruption, carrying a stigma that affected inheritance, status, and family honor.

Rhetorical Devices

Metaphor

The physical act of entering through a window serves as a powerful and enduring metaphor for social and moral transgression, particularly illegitimate birth.

Symbolism

The 'window' symbolizes secrecy, dishonor, and illegitimacy, while the implied 'door' represents openness, honor, and legitimacy.

Euphemism

The phrase functions as a discreet, almost coded way to refer to the socially sensitive and taboo subjects of adultery and bastardy.

Implied Antithesis

The proverb's meaning is built on the implied contrast between the illegitimate entry (window/hatch) and the legitimate one (door), creating a strong moral and social binary.

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Transcription

Quotations

And youe were gladde to take them in, Bycause you knewe that they dyd knowe That youe came in by the wyndowe.

1551, CROWLEY, Pleasure and Pain, l. 348: Wks., p. 119

Away, let him alone; though he came in at the window he sets the gates of your honour open, I can tell you.

1605, CHAPMAN, All Fools, III i 422

This wit taking of long iourneys: Kindred that comes in ore the hatch, and sailing to Westminster makes a number of Cuckolds.

1607, DEKKER AND WEBSTER, North. Ho, I, s. A3v

Woe worth the time that ever I gave suck to a child that came in at the window.

1608, MIDDLETON, Family Love, IV iii 113

Then you keep children in the name of your own, which she suspects came not in at the right door.

1662, MIDDLETON, Anything Quiet Life, III ii 215

It appeares then by your discourse, that you came in at the window.

1634, R. BROME AND T. HEYWOOD, Lanc. Witches, I, p. 174

I would have you thinke I scorne like my Granams Cat to leape over the Hatch.

He hath confest himselfe to be a Bastard.

I came in at the wicket, Some call it the window.

1639, SHIRLEY, Ball, II ii, p. 237

And so she came in at the window.

1664, C. COTTON, Scarron., I, p. 25

Shakespeare Citations

Something about, a little from the right, In at the window, or else o'er the hatch.

Jn, I.i

Cross References

Original Scan

To come in at the WINDOW (o'er the hatch) - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
Scan courtesy of HathiTrust Digital Library.
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