Meaning & Analysis
The phrase describes a woman who does not fit into any of the three primary, socially-defined female roles of the era: an unmarried virgin (maid), a married woman (wife), or a woman whose husband has died (widow).
Insights
Social Transgression
The proverb functions as a euphemism or innuendo for a prostitute or a woman of 'loose morals'. By existing outside the only acceptable social categories, she is relegated to a fourth, unspoken one defined by sexual transgression.
Ambiguous Identity
The phrase signifies a woman who occupies an ambiguous and unsettling social space. She defies easy categorization within the established social hierarchy, making her a figure of suspicion and moral condemnation.
Loss of Honor
Symbolically, the proverb represents a fall from grace or a loss of honor. In the context of the era, a woman who was neither a virgin, nor married, nor widowed was considered to have lost her virtue and social standing.
Patriarchal Social Structure
This proverb reveals a rigid patriarchal social structure where a woman's identity was defined exclusively by her relationship to a man (father, husband, or deceased husband). The phrase underscores the societal anxiety surrounding female sexuality that exists outside the institution of marriage.
Gender Double Standard
The lack of an equivalent proverb for men highlights a historical gender bias. A man's identity was defined by profession, wealth, or lineage, not solely by his marital or sexual status, exposing a significant double standard.
Psychology of Exclusion
Being defined by a series of negations ('neither/nor') implies social condemnation and marginalization. It casts the woman as a social anomaly, existing in a liminal state outside of all respectable categories, leading to suspicion and judgment.
Literary and Dramatic Use
Used by dramatists like Peele and Shakespeare, the phrase served as a potent and concise tool for characterization, immediately signaling to the audience that a female character was of questionable morals or a prostitute, as explicitly noted in the 'Measure for Measure' citation.
Rhetorical Devices
Rhetorical Negation
The subject is defined entirely by what she is not. The repeated use of 'neither' and 'nor' powerfully emphasizes her exclusion from all socially acceptable roles, creating a sense of a void or non-status.
Tricolon
The list of three roles—'maid, wife, nor widow'—creates a memorable and emphatic rhythm. This triadic structure presents the categories as a complete and exhaustive set, thereby magnifying the subject's exclusion.
Innuendo
The phrase operates as a form of innuendo, where the listener understands the implied, unstated meaning (a prostitute) through the process of elimination from the respectable categories.
Transcription
Quotations
She that is neither maide, wife, nor widowe.
For it is now doubtfull what thou art, being neither Maide, wife, nor, saving your reverence, widow.
She is neither wife, widow, nor maid.
Shakespeare Citations
My lord, she may be a punk; for many of them are neither maid, widow, nor wife.
Annotations
- A whore.
Related Proverbs
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