One BEGGAR is woe (bides woe) that another by the door should go

Meaning & Analysis

A beggar is unhappy to see another beggar approach the same door; one petitioner resents a rival seeking alms from the same house.

Insights

Scarcity rivalry

When resources are limited, those who rely on the same patron or pool see each other as threats; a second claimant reduces the first claimant’s chance.

Trade jealousy

Within the same ‘trade’ or role, neighbors are often fiercest rivals; proximity in skill and audience sharpens competition and envy.

Territorial instinct

First-come status breeds a sense of ownership over a spot or patron; newcomers are treated as trespassers on an informal claim.

In-group disdain

People may despise in others the very traits they fear in themselves, displacing self-stigma onto a mirror rival to protect pride.

Queue ethics

The proverb implicitly endorses orderly turns: crowding a single threshold is tactically and morally counterproductive.

Door economy

Almsgiving in early modern towns happened literally at doors and church porches; ‘by the door’ pinpoints the physical bottleneck where rivalry naturally flared.

Proverb family

It harmonizes with ‘A beggar can no beggar well abide’ and ‘Two of a trade seldom agree,’ mapping a general law of small-distance envy from street to shop.

Narcissism of small differences

Rivals who are most alike compete hardest; minimal distinctions (route, badge, style) get exaggerated to justify hostility.

Psychology of scarcity

Zero-sum frames heighten vigilance and resentment; the presence of another seeker makes the first feel poorer before any gift is given.

Patron optics

Multiple petitioners at one threshold can look like collusion or pressure, prompting refusal—so rivalry is partly a reaction to how donors read crowds.

Dialectal bite

Forms like ‘wae’/‘woe’ and ‘gate’/‘door’ carry Scots and Northern coloring, giving the observation folk immediacy and regional texture.

Rhetorical Devices

Parallelism

Balanced halves (‘one beggar… another…’) give the line a neat seesaw that mirrors the face-off at a single door.

Alliteration

The b- of ‘beggar’/‘by’ and d- of ‘door’ add a blunt, percussive cadence suited to a street maxim.

Metonymy

‘Door’ stands for the householder/patron; a concrete threshold carries the whole social scene of petition and refusal.

Ellipsis

Omitted copulas and articles compress a whole drama of envy into a clipped, gnomic statement.

Irony (implied)

Those who might be expected to sympathize—fellow poor—become each other’s chief antagonists, sharpening the sting.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

But it is comenly sayd euery beggar is woo that ony other shold by the dore go.

1520, WHITTINGTON, Vulgaria, p. 71

(byddeth wo).

1552, TAV., f. 9

(that one other be the gait [gate] g[o])).

a.1598, FERG., MS, no. 38

(One beggar is wo, another).

1605, ARMIN, Fool upon Fool, Wks., p. 36

(when another doeth by the doore goe).

1616, DR., s.v. Beggars, no. 145

(bideth woe).

1616, WITHALS, p. 557
1623, CAM., p. 275

(One beggar's woe, another).

1639, CL., p. 13

(One beggar bideth woe, another).

Ibid., s.v. Invidia, p. 176
1659, N.R., p. 82

Ane Beggar is wae, another by the gate gae.

1668, R.B., p. 3

It's one beggers wo, to see another by the door go.

1670, RAY, p. 60

[As in 1639 Cl., p. 13].

1672, WALK., 28, p. 40

[As in 1670 Ray].

1681, ROB., p. 229

One Beggar is ay wo, that another by the Gate go.

1721, KEL., p. 268

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One BEGGAR is woe (bides woe) that another by the door should go - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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