One may point (look) at a STAR but not pull (reach) at it

Meaning & Analysis

A person can see and point to a star in the sky, but due to its immense distance, it is physically impossible to grab or pull it down.

Insights

Ambition and Human Limits

The star symbolizes a lofty goal, a high ambition, or a person of superior social status. The proverb warns that while it is natural to admire or aspire to such heights, one must recognize and accept personal and social limitations, as some goals are simply unattainable.

Aspiration versus Attainment

The proverb distinguishes between passive admiration ('looking') and active pursuit ('reaching'). It suggests that aspiring to greatness is permissible, but attempting to seize something far beyond one's station is an act of folly and presumption that invites failure.

Social Hierarchy and Deference

As evidenced by the quotations from Elizabethan literature, the star often represents a monarch or noble. The proverb serves as a powerful reinforcement of social hierarchy, cautioning commoners to admire their superiors from a distance rather than challenge their position or seek inappropriate intimacy.

Unattainable Love

The proverb is frequently used to describe the pain of loving someone of a much higher social rank. The beloved is the 'bright particular star'—beautiful and admired from afar, but ultimately unreachable for a relationship or marriage.

Cosmological and Social Order

The proverb is deeply rooted in the Elizabethan worldview of a divinely ordered cosmos and the 'Great Chain of Being', where stars symbolized a high, almost divine, station. To 'reach at a star' was not just foolish ambition but an act of hubris that threatened the natural and social order, a theme prevalent in the works of Lyly and Shakespeare.

Historical vs. Modern Interpretation

While historically serving as a powerful warning against transgressing rigid social hierarchies, the proverb's meaning has evolved. In modern contexts, 'reaching for the stars' is an exhortation to pursue high ambitions. The original proverb thus serves as a historical counterpoint, highlighting a cultural shift from a belief in fixed stations to one that values aspiration and social mobility.

Psychology of Ambition

The proverb captures the psychological tension between human desire and the constraints of reality. It acknowledges the natural impulse to aspire to great things ('look at a star') while simultaneously advising a pragmatic self-regulation to avoid the inevitable disappointment and potential ruin that comes from pursuing the impossible.

Rhetorical Devices

Symbolism

The 'star' serves as a potent and universal symbol for beauty, guidance, high ideals, and the unattainable, perfectly encapsulating the concept of a distant and unreachable goal.

Antithesis

The proverb's structure hinges on the direct contrast between the permissible act of 'pointing' or 'looking' and the forbidden act of 'pulling' or 'reaching'. This sharp antithesis creates a clear and memorable moral lesson about the boundary between admiration and action.

Metaphor

The physical act of reaching for a star is used as a metaphor for the social or personal act of pursuing an impossible ambition, whether it be for power, status, or love.

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Transcription

Quotations

For as young as I am, this haue I learned, that one maye poynt at a Starre, but not pull at it, and see a Prince but not search him.

1580, I.LYLY, Euph. and His Eng., p. 46

Things aboue thy height, are to be looked at, not reached at.

Ibid., p. 108

Starres are to be looked at, not reched at: princes to bee yeelded vnto, not contended with.

1584, LYLY, Camp., III v 37

Starres are to be looked at with the eye, not reacht at with the hande.

1588, GREENE, Pandosto, p. 285

Ah shepherd, I haue reacht at a star, my desires haue mounted aboue my degree, and my thoughts aboue my fortunes.

1590, LODGE, Rosalynnde, p. 63

Good reach at starres.

1609, ARMIN, Two Maids More., s. AIv

Least his youthfull browes Reach at Stars only, wey down his loftiest boughes.

1612, DEKKER, If It Be Not Good, p. 269
1732, FUL., no. 3778

Things above thy Heighth, are to be look'd at, not reach'd at.

Ibid., no. 4990

Shakespeare Citations

Dogged York, that reaches at the moon.

2H6, III.i

Wilt thou reach stars, because they shine on thee?

TGV, III.i

'Twere all one That I should love a bright particular star And think to wed it, he is so above me.

AWW, I.i

Cross References

Original Scan

One may point (look) at a STAR but not pull (reach) at it - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
Scan courtesy of HathiTrust Digital Library.
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