Near is my PETTICOAT (kirtle, coat) but nearer is my smock (sark)

Meaning & Analysis

Of all the garments worn, the smock (or shirt) is closest to the body, even closer than the petticoat or coat.

Insights

Degrees of Loyalty

The proverb illustrates that loyalties and affections are strongest toward those most intimately connected to oneself, such as immediate family or oneself, over more distant relations or acquaintances.

Self-Interest First

It encapsulates the notion that people naturally prioritize their own interests, needs, or closest kin before attending to those of others, especially strangers or those further removed.

Hierarchy of Affection

The layers of clothing serve as a metaphor for the layers of relationships: the nearer the garment, the deeper or more essential the bond.

Historical Symbolism

The smock (or sark) was the innermost garment in historical European dress, making it a fitting metaphor for what is most personally significant. The proverb, found in Erasmus and in English, Scots, and other European traditions, reflects a widespread awareness of the primacy of blood relations and self-interest.

Cultural Resonance

Many languages express similar sentiments—such as 'The shirt is nearer the body than the coat'—testifying to a near-universal recognition of gradations in loyalty, obligation, and emotional proximity.

Social Realism

The proverb acknowledges a pragmatic view of social relations, warning that appeals to distant loyalties or ideals may be superseded by more immediate, personal concerns.

Rhetorical Devices

Metaphor

Garments are used as metaphors for personal and social closeness, making the abstract concept of gradated loyalty tangible and visual.

Parallelism

The repetition of structure ('Near is...but nearer is...') provides rhythm and emphasis, reinforcing the comparative logic.

Antithesis

The contrast between petticoat (or coat) and smock (or shirt) sharpens the sense of gradation and drives home the proverb’s message.

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Transcription

Quotations

Tunica pallio propior est. As in Eras.

— Erasmus, Adagia 146c

My cote is nerer me than my robe or gowne.

1539, TAV., f. 15

Ny is my kyrtell, but nere is my smocke.

1546, HEY., I x, s. D1

The englyshe prouerbe sayethe thus: Nere is my cote, but nerer is my shyrt.

1552, TAV., f. 15V
1566, HOL., p. 261

Nigh is my gowne, but nearer is my cote: nigh is my peticote, but nearer is my smocke.

1580, BARET, p. 327
1591, STEP., p. 150

Neir is my coat but nearer is my sark.

a.1598, FERG. MS, no. 1082

And though to Fortvne neere be her petticote, Yet, neerer is her smock, the Queene doth note.

1610, JONSON, Alch., III v 9

(Our women say, neere is).

1611, COT., s.v. Chair
1616, WITHALS, p. 583

That king . . having too many irons in the fire at his own home . . answer'd 'em That the Shirt was nearer to him than his Doublet.

1622, J. HOWELL, Let., I ii 15, I 119

My Shiort is nearer me the[n] my Gowne.

1623, WOD., p. 504

Near is my petticoat, nearer my smock is.

c.1623, Young Man's Careless Wooing, Roxburghe Ballads VIII 869
1636, CAM., p. 303
1639, CL., s.v. Philautia, p. 254

His coat be neere, yet is his shirt much neerer.

c.1640, W.S., Countrym. Commonw., p. 1

Neir is the kirtle, but neirer is the sark.

1641, FERG., no. 657

You know what the Proverbs sings, Near is my Petticoat, but nigher is my smock.

1658, E. PHILLIPS, Myst. Love and Eloq., p. 207
1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 5

The shirt is nearer the body than the doublet.

1666, TOR., It. Prov. 4, p. 35

[As in 1641 Ferg.].

1668, R.B., p. 40

*Some friends are nearer to me then others, My parents and children then my other relations, those then my neighbours, my neighbours then strangers.

1670, RAY, p. 131

(but nearer my smock).

1672, WALK., 40, p. 30

Cross References

Annotations

  1. By thys is signified that one frende is nerer vnto a man than an other is.
  2. So meant of the nearest Bloud, or of himselfe before Strangers.

Original Scan

Near is my PETTICOAT (kirtle, coat) but nearer is my smock (sark) - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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