I am NEAREST to myself

Meaning & Analysis

One’s primary concern, responsibility, and natural attachment is to oneself above all others.

Insights

Self-Preservation

Implies that individuals are naturally inclined to prioritize their own welfare, safety, and interests before those of others—an instinct rooted in survival and reason.

Pragmatic Self-Interest

Advocates for reasonable self-care and prudence, suggesting that to act wisely is to begin by securing one’s own well-being and stability.

Limits of Altruism

Acknowledges the inherent limitations of selflessness, reminding us that even acts of generosity often arise from, or are tempered by, personal needs or boundaries.

Classical and Humanist Roots

The Latin expression *proximus sum egomet mihi*, cited by Erasmus and echoed throughout Renaissance literature, reflects the Stoic and Ciceronian principle that self-awareness and self-governance are foundations of ethical life—not selfishness, but conscious responsibility.

Early Modern Individualism

The frequent invocation of this proverb in 16th–17th century drama and moral writing reveals a cultural shift toward individual agency, self-discipline, and internal moral compass—a precursor to Enlightenment ideals of rational selfhood.

Ethical Ambiguity

While the proverb can justify selfishness, it also supports the idea that one must be well-ordered internally to benefit others—a concept shared by both ancient and Christian moral philosophies: 'love thy neighbor as thyself' presupposes self-regard.

Rhetorical Devices

Paradox

By declaring something seemingly obvious—'I am nearest to myself'—the phrase invites reflection on the balance between self-interest and social duty, turning a tautology into moral advice.

Classical Allusion

The Latin origin and its recurrence in Renaissance literature give the proverb intellectual and moral authority, grounding personal ethics in classical wisdom.

Universal Framing

Structured as a first-person declaration, the proverb applies universally by speaking from an individual voice that represents collective human nature.

selfhoodethicsindividualismstoicismself-interestresponsibility
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Transcription

Quotations

Heus proximus sum egomet mihi.

— Erasmus, Adagia 147A

He is a man that to himself is nie.

c.1570, T. PRESTON, Cambyses, s. A3v

I loue you well, but I loue my selfe better.

1586, WITHALS, s. O7v

Proximus sum egomet mihi.

c.1589

Ego mihimet sum semper proximus.

1633, MARLOWE, Jew Malta, I i 87

As euery one is neerest to himselfe, so this hand-maid of reason, allowable selfe-loue, as it is without harme, so are none without it.

1601, JONSON, Cynthia’s Revels, V vii 27

But nature, loue, and reason, tels thee thus, Thy selfe must yet be neerest to thy selfe.

1601, YARINGTON, Two Lam. Trag., s. CiV

The thoughts borne nearest Vnto our selues, moue swiftfest still, and dearest.

1605, JONSON, Sejanus, IV 85, p. 421

Meane time, my Lord, Be nearest to your selfe.

1633, J. FORD, Love’s Sacr., III, p. 142

But euery man is neerest to himselfe, And that the King obserues, tis fit a’ should.

1634, J. FORD, Perkin War., II, p. 188

It is a common and received Prouerbe in nature, proximus egomet mihi, I am my owne next neighbour.

1643, CAWDREY, Good Man, p. 27

Shakespeare Citations

To myself am dearer than a Friend, For love is still most precious in itself.

TGV, II.vi

Good, yet remember whom thou hast aboard. —None that I more love than myself.

Tmp, I.i

Cross References

Original Scan

I am NEAREST to myself - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs. I am NEAREST to myself - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs. (continuation)
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