Lay thy FINGERS on thy lips

Meaning & Analysis

Place your finger on your lips as a gesture to indicate silence or secrecy.

Insights

Call for Silence

The proverb urges discretion, signaling that one should refrain from speaking, especially in situations where speech may be dangerous, unwise, or inappropriate.

Secrecy and Restraint

It can also imply the need to keep a secret or to exercise self-control over one’s words—valuing prudence, confidentiality, and thoughtful restraint.

Historical Symbolism

The gesture of placing a finger on the lips as a symbol of silence is ancient, appearing in classical antiquity (e.g., Horace’s 'digito compesce labellum') and surviving into modern times as a universal signal for quiet or secrecy.

Literary and Cultural Resonance

The proverb and its imagery are recurrent in English drama, especially Shakespeare, where it conveys the weight of unsaid words, hidden truths, or conspiratorial silence. It resonates across genres—from tragedy to comedy—as a marker of wisdom or necessity.

Psychological Dimensions

The phrase embodies the psychological principle that silence is often as powerful as speech; it recognizes the discipline required to withhold words, reflecting social intelligence and emotional self-control.

Rhetorical Devices

Metonymy

Using 'finger on lips' as a metonym for silence or secrecy allows the proverb to convey a complex behavioral norm through a simple gesture.

Imperative Mood

The direct command ('Lay thy fingers...') gives the phrase a forceful, memorable quality, reinforcing the urgency or importance of the instruction.

Allusion

Alludes to classical and biblical traditions, enriching its authority and cultural depth by echoing a gesture recognized across eras and societies.

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Transcription

Quotations

If this graue Matron be your mother, Sir, stand by her, Et digito compesce labellum.

1631, JONSON, Barth. Fair, V vi 20

Digito compesce labellum.

1641, JONSON, Timber, p. 15

Shakespeare Citations

Still your fingers on your lips, I pray.

Ham, I.v

Peace, Troyan! Lay thy finger on thy lips!

Tro, I.iii

Lay thy finger thus, and let thy soul be instructed.

Oth, II.i

You seem to understand me, By each at once her choppy finger laying Upon her skinny lips.

Mac, I.iii

Cross References

  • See St., no. 2398.

Original Scan

Lay thy FINGERS on thy lips - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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