To match MAY with December (January)

Meaning & Analysis

To pair the month of May, representing the height of spring, with December or January, which are months in the middle of winter. It signifies joining two seasons that are fundamentally opposite in character.

Insights

Youth and Old Age

The primary metaphor refers to a romantic relationship or marriage between a young person (May) and a much older one (December/January), highlighting the disparity in age, energy, and life stage.

Incongruous Pairing

On a broader level, the proverb describes any partnership or combination of two entities that are fundamentally unsuited or incongruous, whether in temperament, purpose, or nature.

Vitality and Decline

The proverb suggests a clash between vitality and decline. It symbolizes the joining of vibrant, burgeoning life with a state of coldness, decay, or impending finality, often implying a sense of waste or tragedy.

Seasonal Symbolism

The proverb draws on deep-seated seasonal symbolism, where 'May' represents the peak of spring, fertility, and youth, while 'December' or 'January' signifies the cold, dormancy, and finality of winter. This contrast powerfully evokes the perceived unnaturalness of the union.

Literary Trope

This theme is a recurring motif in Western literature, most famously explored in Chaucer's 'The Merchant's Tale'. The provided quotations from the 16th and 17th centuries demonstrate its widespread use as a satirical or critical trope for commenting on unsuitable marriages.

Psychological and Social Commentary

The proverb often carries a judgmental subtext, reflecting societal anxieties about relationships with significant age gaps. It implicitly questions the motives of both parties, suggesting the older partner is foolishly trying to reclaim youth and the younger is seeking financial security, thus framing the match as transactional rather than romantic.

Rhetorical Devices

Symbolism

The proverb is built on the stark symbolic contrast between 'May' (youth, spring, warmth, life) and 'December' (old age, winter, cold, death).

Antithesis

The direct opposition of the two seasonal concepts creates a powerful antithesis, emphasizing their incompatibility and the unnaturalness of their union.

Personification

The months are treated as human-like figures who can be 'matched' or 'coupled', a form of personification that makes the abstract concept of an age-mismatched relationship more vivid and concrete.

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Transcription

Quotations

In fayth doth frozen Janus double face, Such fauour finde, to match with pleasant Maye.

1581, T. HOWELL, Devises: Poems, p. 231

When I Loked apon her husband with his white hedde and horye Berde I judged January and may to be copled to gether.

c1595, W. SPELMAN, Dial., p. 94

Is not this a prettie world? January and May make a match?

1604, Wit Woman, s. E4v

You doe wrong to Time, enforcing May to embrace December.

1606, DEKKER, Seven Deadly Sins: Non-Dram. Wks., II 71

It is December match'd with May.

1608, Poet. Rhap., 235, I 291

Yonder goes cold December match'd with May.

c1620, ROWLANDS, Pair Spy Knaves, p. 7

I am in the May of my abilities, And you in your December.

1655, MASSINGER, Guardian, I i, p. 188

As unfortunate it is, when fifteen joines to seventy, there's old doings (as they say) the Man and Wife sitting togther like January and May day.

1654, GAYTON, Pleas. Notes Don Quix., II iv, p. 50

Lustfull he was, at Forty needs must wed, Old January will have May in bed.

1655, MENNIS AND SMITH, Musarum Deliciae: Facetiae, I 103

Original Scan

To match MAY with December (January) - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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