Hold the DISH while I shed my pottage

Meaning & Analysis

A person is being asked to hold a dish, not to receive food, but to facilitate the intentional spilling or wasting of another person's own 'pottage' (a thick stew), a nonsensical and self-defeating request.

Insights

Complicity in Self-Sabotage

The proverb illustrates the absurdity of being asked to assist in or enable another person's self-destructive, foolish, or counterproductive actions. It critiques the act of becoming an accomplice to someone else's folly.

Futile Cooperation

It symbolizes involvement in a pointless or illogical task. Holding a dish for intentionally spilled stew is a metaphor for any activity where one's cooperation serves a nonsensical or futile purpose.

Critique of Willful Waste

The act of spilling one's own valuable food represents a deliberate and foolish waste of resources. The proverb warns against such wastefulness and the absurdity of expecting others to approve of or assist in it.

Delegating Responsibility for Folly

By asking someone to 'hold the dish', the spiller attempts to make another person a party to their mistake, thereby diffusing responsibility or creating a witness who is complicit in the foolish act.

Historical Value of 'Pottage'

The proverb's meaning is rooted in the historical significance of 'pottage' as a vital, staple food. Deliberately wasting it would be seen as an act of profound folly or madness, amplifying the absurdity of asking someone to assist in such a self-destructive act.

Psychology of Enablement

The proverb masterfully captures the dynamic of enabling. The 'dish holder' is a classic enabler, drawn into facilitating another's irrational or self-harming behavior, highlighting a common and dysfunctional psychological pattern.

Literary and Satirical Context

The proverb's use in John Marston's satirical play 'Antonio and Mellida' suggests its cultural role in signifying a world of inverted logic, where nonsensical actions become part of a deliberate, if foolish, plan. It functions as a password for absurdity.

Rhetorical Devices

Absurdist Irony

The proverb's power derives from its profound situational irony and absurdity. A dish, meant to preserve food, is requested for the opposite purpose, creating a memorable and vivid image of irrationality.

Symbolism

The 'dish' symbolizes complicity and enablement, while the 'pottage' represents any valuable resource (e.g., livelihood, opportunity, well-being) that is being foolishly squandered.

Imperative Mood

The use of a direct command ('Hold the dish...') thrusts the listener into the scenario, forcing them to confront the absurdity of the request and their potential role as an accomplice.

follycomplicityabsurdityself-sabotageironywaste
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Transcription

Quotations

And the word shall be; Hold my dish, whilst I spill my pottage.

1602, MARSTON, Antonio and Mell., V i 21
1670, RAY, p. 218

Original Scan

Hold the DISH while I shed my pottage - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
Scan courtesy of HathiTrust Digital Library.
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