LIKE will to like

Meaning & Analysis

Beings or things of similar nature or disposition are naturally drawn to one another.

Insights

Natural Affinity

This proverb captures the tendency for individuals with shared traits, values, or temperaments to be attracted to each other, whether in friendship, romance, or community.

Self-Reinforcing Social Order

Reflects how social, cultural, or moral homogeneity tends to preserve itself, as people choose companions who mirror their worldview, reinforcing social structures and ideologies.

Emotional and Moral Echo

Suggests that the emotional or ethical resonance between people fosters connection; those with similar joys, flaws, or motivations tend to find companionship and understanding in one another.

Classical and Humanist Foundations

Originating in Erasmus’s *Adagia* ('Aequalis aequalem delectat'), the proverb has deep classical roots in the philosophy of natural congruity. It expresses a timeless truth about human nature and was widely cited by Renaissance humanists to affirm the importance of similarity in social bonds.

Shakespearean Use and Irony

Shakespeare frequently played on the proverb’s logic, both earnestly and ironically. In *All’s Well That Ends Well* and *Measure for Measure*, he explores how nature and justice draw equivalents together, revealing both poetic justice and social critique.

Psychosocial Homophily

Modern psychology affirms this folk wisdom through the principle of homophily—the natural preference for associating with similar others. While comforting, this instinct can also foster echo chambers and resistance to diversity.

Rhetorical Devices

Tautology

The repetition of 'like' emphasizes equivalence and inevitability, delivering the message with simplicity and rhetorical force.

Antanaclasis

The use of 'like' with subtly different meanings—one as a noun, one as a verb or preposition—adds a clever linguistic turn, making the phrase memorable and versatile.

Proverbial Parallelism

The balance and symmetry in the structure mimic the very harmony the proverb describes, reinforcing its thematic content in its form.

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Transcription

Quotations

Aequalis aequalem delectat.

— Erasmus, Adagia 78D

For it is a prouerbe, and an olde sayd sawe That in euery place lyke to lyke wyll drawe.

1509, A. BARCLAY, Ship Fools, II 35

A like will drawe to like.

a.1536, HILL, 23, p. 131

Lyke delyteth the lyke.

1539, TAV., f. 8
1546, HEY., I iv, s. B1.

*One shrew loueth to matche with an other: or contrary.

1559, COOPER, s.v. Aequalis

Is it not a by woord, like will to like?

1578, LYLY, Euph. Anat. Wit, p. 197

Like will to like, or like most readily gather in companie vnto like.

1580, BARET, L-475

Like vnto like, and learning to skill.

1585, [MUNDAY], fidele and Fort., V iv, s. H1
1611, COT., s.v. Demander
Ibid., s.v. Semblable
1611, GRUT., no. 174
1614, CAM., p. 309

Like to like.

1616, DR., no. 284
Ibid., no. 1242

Everyone seekes his Like.

1623, WOD., p. 507
1639, CL., p. 290
1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 9
1672, WALK., 33, p. 41

Shakespeare Citations

The mightiest space in fortune nature brings To join like likes.

AWW, I.i

Haste still pays haste, and leisure answers leisure; Like doth quit like.

MM, V.i

Cross References

Original Scan

LIKE will to like - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs. LIKE will to like - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs. (continuation)
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