It is not tint¹ that is done to FRIENDS

Meaning & Analysis

Nothing given or done for friends is ever lost ('tint' = lost); any kindness, generosity, or help extended to a friend retains its value.

Insights

Value of Generosity

Highlights the enduring worth of acts of kindness toward friends, suggesting that such deeds enrich both giver and recipient, regardless of tangible returns.

Moral Investment

Frames good turns to friends as a secure investment in one’s own ethical well-being and social network, rather than as a transaction with risk of loss.

Faith in Reciprocity

Reflects the belief that friendship is characterized by mutual aid; even if a favor is not repaid immediately, the spirit of goodwill persists and will return in some form.

Cultural and Linguistic Roots

This proverb, with its Scottish form 'tint,' signals a broader folk wisdom shared across cultures—that generosity to friends ultimately benefits oneself, through returned favor, gratitude, or simple satisfaction.

Ethical Philosophy

The idea aligns with moral philosophies from Aristotle to modern thinkers, emphasizing virtue for its own sake and affirming that friendship is sustained by selfless action, not by expectation of reward.

Psychological Dimension

Research shows that giving and helping close others fosters well-being and deepens bonds, making such actions far from wasted—no matter the external outcome.

Rhetorical Devices

Negation

The use of 'not' and 'lost' (tint) asserts value through denial, strengthening the positive message by emphasizing what is not at risk.

Archaic Diction

The term 'tint' gives the proverb a regional, old-world flavor, enhancing its authenticity and memorability.

Ellipsis

Leaves implicit what is 'done'—favor, gift, help—making the saying flexible and applicable to all acts of friendship.

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Analyzed with gpt-4.1 on July 12, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

1641, FERG., no. 518
1668, R.B., p. 31

It is no tint, a Friend gets.

1721, KEL., p. 198

Annotations

  1. lost

Original Scan

It is not tint¹ that is done to FRIENDS - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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