He is a FOOL that forgets himself

Meaning & Analysis

A person is foolish if he loses sight of himself—his interests, dignity, or identity.

Insights

Neglect of Self-Interest

The proverb suggests that failing to look after one’s own needs, priorities, or well-being is a hallmark of folly—wisdom begins with self-awareness and prudent self-care.

Loss of Self-Control

It also refers to the dangers of acting impulsively or letting emotions override judgment, so that one acts in ways that are out of character or damaging to one’s own reputation.

Historical Resonance

The theme of self-forgetting is present in classical, biblical, and early modern moral philosophy, where wisdom is equated with self-possession. Shakespeare's use of the phrase in 'King John' captures the link between madness, self-forgetting, and loss of reason.

Psychological Perspective

Forgetting oneself may reflect lack of mindfulness, self-awareness, or discipline. The proverb points to the importance of being 'wise for oneself'—not in selfishness, but in sustaining one’s own integrity and agency.

Social and Moral Commentary

It critiques those who, in seeking to please others, pursue vain ambitions, or escape their burdens, lose their core identity or values, thereby forfeiting wisdom.

Rhetorical Devices

Ellipsis

The brevity of the phrase leaves 'forgetting oneself' open to wide interpretation—encompassing pride, carelessness, or emotional excess.

Allusion

The proverb alludes to classical and biblical wisdom traditions, enriching its authority and resonance.

Antithesis

By defining folly as self-forgetting, it implies that wisdom is rooted in self-remembrance—an implicit contrast that deepens the message.

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Transcription

Quotations

a1598, FERG., MS, no. 515

(right foole)

1611, COT., Fol, s.v.
1623, WOD., p. 483

A right fool forgets himself.

1659, N.R., p. 9
1697, MER., p. 165
1721, KEL., p. 169

Shakespeare Citations

I am not mad. I would to heaven I were! For then 'tis like I should forget myself.

Jn, III.iv

Cross References

Original Scan

He is a FOOL that forgets himself - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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