Meaning & Analysis
Both fresh fish and newly arrived guests become unpleasant or unwelcome after about three days.
Insights
Limits of Hospitality
The proverb cautions that even welcome visitors, like fresh fish, have a short window before their presence becomes burdensome or unwelcome.
Social Decorum
Advises guests to be mindful of overstaying, reinforcing norms of polite conduct and consideration for a host’s comfort and resources.
Inevitability of Change
Suggests that initial freshness or novelty—whether of food or company—fades quickly, and overstaying one’s welcome naturally leads to discomfort or irritation.
Cross-cultural Wisdom
Similar proverbs appear across many cultures, indicating a widespread recognition of the challenges of hospitality and the need for balance between generosity and self-preservation.
Historical Context
In pre-modern times, without refrigeration, fish would spoil quickly, just as extended visits could strain resources and patience in smaller, close-knit households.
Psychological and Social Insight
The saying reflects a psychological truth about social boundaries and the delicate equilibrium between warmth and personal space in human relationships.
Rhetorical Devices
Simile and Analogy
The proverb uses a direct analogy between the perishability of fish and the declining welcome of guests, making its point vivid and memorable.
Rhythmic Parallelism
The paired structure of 'fish' and 'guests' and the shared three-day limit enhances the proverb’s rhythm and clarity.
Imagery
Sensory imagery—especially of smell—evokes a strong, almost comic sense of the consequences of overstaying.
Transcription
Quotations
As we say in Athens, fishe and gests in three dayes are stale.
After three dayes fish is vnsauoury, and so is an ill guest.
A guest and fish after three dayes are fustie.
We should be sorry we or our cloaths should be like fish, new, stale, and stinking in three days.
(smell by they be three dayes old).
Two dayes y'ave larded here; a third, yee know, Makes guests and fish smell strong; pray go.
Guests and Fish stink in three dayes.
A Guest and a fish at three daies end, grow musty.
Fish, and an Host, in three daies stink.
Fresh fish and strangers stinck in three dayes.
(smell when they are three Daies old).
Fresh Fish, and poor Friends become soon ill sar'd [savored, smell-ing].
Spoken when we see poor Relations slighted.
Fish and Guests smell at three Days old.
Fish and visitors smell in three days.
Cross References
- See DÜR., I, no. 543
- OTTO, no. 1429.
- D114 After three days men grow weary of a wench, a guest, and weather rainy (rain).
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