Lay not a CHURL upon a gentleman

Meaning & Analysis

Do not drink a 'lesser' or 'coarser' alcoholic beverage, such as beer or ale (the 'churl'), after having drunk a 'finer' one, like wine (the 'gentleman'). This was believed to be both a breach of etiquette and a cause of physical indigestion.

Insights

Maintaining Social Order

The proverb serves as a powerful metaphor for maintaining social hierarchy and order. It warns against inverting the 'natural' or accepted structure by placing something of lower status (a churl) in a position of authority or influence over something of higher status (a gentleman).

Preservation of Quality

On a broader level, it is a warning against degrading an experience by following something of high quality with something inferior. This principle suggests that one should not dilute or spoil a refined experience, whether in taste, art, or conversation, with something coarse or common.

Principle of Proper Sequence

The saying implies a proper sequence and progression in all things. It suggests that actions should build upon each other in a positive or logical direction. To reverse this order is to create discord, confusion, or an unpleasant outcome, whether in social interactions or personal conduct.

Corruption by the Inferior

It symbolizes the idea that a coarse or base element can corrupt or ruin a refined one. Introducing an inferior element after a superior one does not elevate the former but rather tarnishes the latter, warning against unwise mixtures or associations.

Social Class Symbolism

The proverb embeds the English class structure into a rule of consumption. Wine, often imported and expensive, was the drink of the 'gentleman', while beer or ale was the common drink of the 'churl' or laborer. The saying thus transforms a piece of drinking etiquette into a reinforcement of social hierarchy.

Folk Medicine and Digestion

Beyond a social metaphor, the proverb reflects early modern physiological beliefs about digestion. The idea that mixing drinks in the 'wrong' order—specifically a 'heavy' drink like beer after a 'light' one like wine—would lead to physical discomfort was a common piece of folk wisdom.

Cultural Etiquette

As evidenced by its inclusion in works like Swift's 'Polite Conversation', this saying was a marker of refined social etiquette. To know and follow this rule was to demonstrate one's own status as a 'gentleman' who understands the proper order of things, both at the table and in society.

Psychology of Declining Quality

The proverb speaks to the psychological principle of diminishing quality. An experience is often perceived as more negative if it follows a superior one. Following a fine wine with a common ale makes the ale seem worse and spoils the pleasant memory of the wine, a concept that applies to many areas beyond drinking.

Rhetorical Devices

Metaphorical Personification

The proverb's central device is the personification of beverages as distinct social classes. Wine is elevated to a 'gentleman' and beer is demoted to a 'churl', creating a vivid and memorable social drama in a single phrase.

Antithesis

The entire meaning rests on the stark contrast between the 'churl' (lowly, coarse, common) and the 'gentleman' (noble, refined, superior), making the hierarchy and the warning unmistakable.

Imperative Mood

Phrased as a negative command ('Lay not...'), the proverb takes on a didactic, authoritative tone, presenting itself as a firm rule of conduct rather than a mere observation.

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Transcription

Quotations

*Drink not beere after wine.

1586, WITHALS, s. D7

Why then farewell, I care not I for Beere, My Capitaine gaue me some Canarie wine: The Churle he shall not ride the Gentleman.

1618, BELCHIER, Hans Beer-Pot, s. D3v

And after to drinke Beere, nor will, nor can He lay a Churle upon a Gentleman.

1637, J. TAYLOR, Drink and Welcome, Wks. Q., II C2v

Lay not churle upon gentleman (Post vina, ne potes mera).

1639, CL., s.v. Luxus et Mollities, p. 192

(To put a churl).

a.1700, B.E., s.v. Churl

I will never put the Carle above the Gentleman.

1721, KEL., p. 186

You put the Clown above the Gentleman.

1732, FUL., no. 5982

Will you taste a glass of October? —No . . I like your wine, and won't put a churl upon a gentleman.

1738, SWIFT, Pol. Conv., II, p. 449

Cross References

Annotations

  1. Spoken when we offer Ale to them that have been drinking Claret.

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