He can laugh and cry both with a BREATH

Meaning & Analysis

He can pass from laughing to crying (or display both) in the span of a single breath—i.e., almost instantly.

Insights

Emotional Volatility

Portrays a temperament so mercurial that feelings flip without transition, making responses unpredictable and unstable.

Performative Affect

Suggests an ability to stage emotions on cue—tears and mirth as theatrical effects rather than sincere states, useful for persuasion or deceit.

Two-faced Posture

Frames a person who can comfort and wound, flatter and reproach, in the same breath; duplicity hides behind quick shifts in tone.

Paradox of Passion

Hints at experiences (love, grief) that genuinely mix contrary affects, where laughter and weeping are neighbors rather than opposites.

Breath as Time-unit

‘Breath’ metonymizes an instant and the instrument of speech; to change ‘in a breath’ ties emotional swing to verbal performance—words carry the pivot.

Dissimulation Thread

Early collections gloss the feat as difficult yet attributed to dissemblers: those skilled at masking can summon tears or mirth to suit advantage, a social weapon in courts and markets.

Shakespearean Resonance

Poets note states that ‘laugh and weep … with a breath,’ capturing love’s ambivalence and the human capacity to host contrary affects without contradiction.

Psychological Read

Maps to rapid affect shifts—whether strategic impression management or labile mood—reminding that outward displays can be both sincere and instrumental.

Manners and Morals

As praise, it marks lively responsiveness; as censure, it marks untrustworthiness. The proverb is a diagnostic: speed of switch raises questions about depth.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

Pairs ‘laugh’ and ‘cry’ to dramatize extremes of affect, sharpening the shock of their proximity.

Paradox

Asserts simultaneous or instantaneous opposites, creating a memorable tension that mirrors the human mix of feelings.

Metonymy

‘Breath’ stands for a moment and for speech, linking temporal brevity and rhetorical agility.

Isocolon

Balanced halves around ‘laugh’ / ‘cry’ give the line a neat, chant-like symmetry that aids recall.

Hyperbole

Compresses a complex emotional turn into a single breath to emphasize speed and theatrical control.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

He doeth laugh and weepe with one breath.

1616, DR., Dissimulation, no. 515

(It is a hard thing to laugh).

1616, WITHALS, p. 581

'Tis hard to laugh and cry both in a breath.

1639, CL., Impossibilia, p. 147

(and both in a wind).

1670, RAY, p. 184

She can laugh and cry, both in a Wind.

1732, FUL., no. 4120

Shakespeare Citations

For I have heard it [love] is a life in death, That laughs, and weeps, and all but with a breath.

Ven, 413

Cross References

Original Scan

He can laugh and cry both with a BREATH - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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