To weep (It may serve) with an ONION

Meaning & Analysis

The act of cutting an onion releases a chemical irritant that causes the eyes to water, producing tears. This physiological reaction can be used to simulate the appearance of weeping without any genuine emotional cause.

Insights

Feigned Emotion and Hypocrisy

The proverb is a metaphor for feigning emotion, particularly sorrow or remorse. It signifies an insincere or hypocritical display of feeling, where the outward signs of emotion are present but the internal sentiment is absent.

Theatricality of Grief

It points to the theatricality of grief, suggesting that emotional displays can be a calculated performance for an audience. The 'onion' is a prop used to make the performance of sadness more convincing.

Emotional Manipulation

The act of 'weeping with an onion' is a form of emotional manipulation, intended to deceive observers and elicit sympathy, trust, or a particular social response under false pretenses.

Authenticity vs. Artificiality

The proverb draws a sharp line between authentic, heartfelt feeling and its artificial imitation. It serves as a critique of superficiality and a caution to question the genuineness of emotional displays.

Literary and Theatrical Trope

The proverb's frequent appearance in Elizabethan and Jacobean literature, especially in Shakespeare and Jonson, reveals its role as a widely understood cultural shorthand for insincere grief. It was a common theatrical and literary device to signal hypocrisy to the audience.

Psychology of Deception

The proverb reflects a cynical psychological insight into human behavior, acknowledging that social rituals often demand a performance of emotion. Franklin's quote about 'heirs and widows' points directly to the use of feigned sorrow for social or financial gain.

Material Culture and Symbolism

The use of a common, everyday vegetable—the onion—to provoke a profound emotional signifier (tears) grounds the abstract concept of hypocrisy in a tangible, almost comically mundane experience, making the critique both potent and accessible.

Rhetorical Devices

Symbolism

The onion serves as a potent and universally understood symbol for a source of artificial or forced tears, perfectly linking a physical cause with a metaphorical meaning of insincerity.

Irony

The proverb is inherently ironic, juxtaposing a profound human emotion (grief) with a mundane culinary object (an onion) as its cause. The parenthetical note 'Spoken ironically' in the historical record confirms this interpretation.

Metaphor

The entire phrase functions as a concise metaphor for any act of disingenuous emotional performance. 'Weeping with an onion' becomes a stand-in for faking it.

deceitinsinceritygriefhypocrisyperformanceauthenticity
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Transcription

Quotations

Cepas edere, to eate oynions, was a prouerbe spoken of them, which dydde seeme to weepe, or that do weepe often.

1548, COOPER, s.v. Cepa

Yet can I not chuse but weepe, with an onion in mine eye, and an apple in my mouth.

1583, MELBANCKE, Philot., s. XIV

Faith thou hast made me weepe with this newes. —Why I have done but the parte of an Onion, you must pardon me.

c.1597, JONSON, Case Is Altered, I iii 40
1616, WITHALS, p. 557
1639, CL., p. 313

(It may serve).

1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 1

Spoken ironically.

*Note

To squeeze onions in ones eyes, viz. to seem to weep or mourn, to force tears.

1666, TOR., Prov. Phr., s.v. Occhi, p. 121

(It may serve).

1670, RAY, p. 214

(He weeps).

1671, CL., Phras. Puer., s.v. To Dissemble, p. 100

Onions can make ev'n heirs and widows weep.

1734, FRANKLIN, p. 8

Shakespeare Citations

And if the boy have not a woman's gift To rain a shower of commanded tears, An onion will do as well for such a shift.

Shr, Ind.i

Mine eyes smell onions; I shall weep anon.

AWW, V.iii

The tears live in an onion that should water this sorrow.

Ant, I.ii

Look, they weep, And I, an ass, am onion-ey'd.

Ant, IV.ii

Cross References

Original Scan

To weep (It may serve) with an ONION - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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