The WORTH of a thing is best known by the want

Meaning & Analysis

The true value of something is most clearly perceived when it is absent or has been lost.

Insights

Complacency and Appreciation

The proverb is a commentary on the human tendency to take things for granted. Possession breeds familiarity and often complacency, while absence forces a new and often painful appreciation for what was once readily available.

Hindsight and Wisdom

It suggests that true understanding of value is experiential, gained not through intellectual assessment but through the emotional impact of absence. Knowledge of worth is therefore often retrospective and tinged with regret.

Desire and Unavailability

The proverb speaks to the nature of human desire, which is often kindled more by scarcity and absence than by presence. What is unattainable or lost often becomes more coveted than what is easily held.

Psychology of Regret

This proverb articulates the psychological principle of loss aversion, where the pain of losing something is felt more acutely than the pleasure of having it. Shakespeare masterfully explores this theme, particularly in 'Much Ado About Nothing', where Claudio only recognizes Hero's true worth after her feigned death, demonstrating that value is often understood through the lens of regret.

Economics of Scarcity

The proverb reflects a fundamental economic concept: scarcity increases value. While in possession, an object's or person's utility can be taken for granted. Its absence, or 'want', creates a demand that clarifies its essential contribution, a principle seen in market dynamics and personal relationships alike.

Universality of Experience

The idea is a piece of universal wisdom, echoed in related proverbs like 'We never know the worth of water till the well goes dry'. This recurrence across different formulations highlights a core human experience: our tendency to adapt to and undervalue constants in our lives until they are threatened or removed.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

The proverb's power lies in the direct contrast between 'worth' (value in presence) and 'want' (the state of absence), creating a memorable and impactful statement about human perception.

Aphorism

The phrase is a concise and memorable statement of a general truth, embodying the aphoristic style that makes proverbs effective vehicles for cultural wisdom.

Alliteration

The repetition of the 'w' sound in 'worth' and 'want' creates a subtle phonetic connection that enhances the proverb's rhythm and memorability.

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Transcription

Quotations

The value of a good wife (as all good things else) are better known by their want than by their fruition.

1606, CHAPMAN, M. D'Olive, III i 65

The worth of things is knowne when they be lost.

1611, COT., s.v. Cogneu

The price of things is best knowne in their want.

1611, TOURNEUR, Ath. Trag., V ii, p. 253

A man knoweth not the worth of a thing before that he wanteth it.

1616, DR., no. 7

A man knowes not the worth of a thing till he want it.

1639, CL., p. 75

Worth of things is knowne by th' want.

Ibid., p. 224

One knows not what a thing is worth till he have lost it.

1657, LEIGH, p. 271

A man knowes not the worth of a thing, till he wants it.

1659, N.R., p. 5

Good is not known till it be lost.

1666, TOR., It. Prov., 22, p. 31
1670, RAY, p. 159

(by its Want).

1694, D'URFEY, I Don Quix., V ii, p. 89

(the want of it).

1721, KEL., p. 335

Blessings are not valued, till they are gone.

1732, FUL., no. 989

Shakespeare Citations

He that is strucken blind cannot forget The precious treasure of his eyesight lost.

Rom, I.i

What we have we prize not to the worth Whiles we enjoy it, but being lack'd and lost .. we find The virtue that possession would not show us Whiles it was ours.

Ado, IV.i

She whom all men prais'd, and whom myself, Since I have lost, have lov'd, was in mine eye The dust that did offend it.

AWW, V.iii

What our contempts do often hurl from us, We wish it ours again. The present pleasure .. does become The opposite of itself. She's good, being gone; The hand could pluck her back that shov'd her on.

Ant, I.ii

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The WORTH of a thing is best known by the want - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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