WOMEN will have their wills

Meaning & Analysis

Women are inherently determined and will inevitably succeed in getting what they want, regardless of any opposition.

Insights

Stereotype of Female Stubbornness

The proverb serves as a commentary on the perceived nature of women as inherently stubborn or unyielding. It frames this persistence as a fundamental and inescapable feminine trait.

Domestic Power Dynamics

It highlights the subtle power struggles within relationships, suggesting that despite societal norms favoring men, women's persistence allows them to exert significant influence and ultimately achieve their objectives.

Resignation to Female Agency

The proverb can be read as an expression of cynical resignation, implying that resisting a woman's desires is futile, making concession the most practical or peaceful course of action.

Historical Gender Dynamics

Originating in a patriarchal era where women lacked formal power, this proverb reflects a cultural acknowledgment of female agency within the domestic sphere. It can be interpreted as both a grudging recognition of women's influence and a complaint against their perceived obstinacy.

Psychological Undercurrents

The proverb reveals a societal anxiety surrounding female autonomy, framing women's desires not as rational ambitions but as an inexorable, almost natural, force. This stereotype serves to simplify and often dismiss the legitimacy of their goals.

Legal and Social Context

Cross-referenced proverbs like 'Women must have their wills while they live because they make none when they die' add a layer of dark humor, alluding to the legal limitations (coverture) that historically denied married women the right to own property or make a will.

Rhetorical Devices

Categorical Generalization

The proverb makes a sweeping, absolute claim about all 'WOMEN', a form of hyperbole that strengthens its impact and presents a stereotype as an undeniable fact.

Alliteration

The repetition of the 'w' sound in 'Women will' creates a memorable phonetic link, enhancing the proverb's rhythm and reinforcing its message.

Declarative Tone

It is stated as a simple, confident truth, leaving no room for nuance or argument. This authoritative tone is characteristic of proverbial wisdom.

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Transcription

Quotations

Let euery man please his wife in all matters, and . . . let hir haue hir owne will, for that she wyll haue whosoever say ney.

1552, BOORDE, Brev. Health, 242, I, f. 82v

I am kyn to a woman in all poynts ile haue my will.

c.1569, J. PHILLIP, Patient Grissell, I. 1230, s. Fiv

It must be as the woman will, when all is said and done.

1583, MELBANCKE, Philot., s. S3

Come Cyclops, my wife must haue her will.

1584, LYLY, Sapho and Phao, IV iv 30

A woman must a little haue her will.

1589, Rare Triumphs Love and Fortune, V 1557, s. F4v

But in our loues, the prouerbe weele fulfill: Women and Maydes, must alwayes haue their will.

1616, HAUGHTON, Eng. for My Money, s. B3

Doe not I know, if women haue a will, They'll doe 'gainst all the watches, o' the world?

1607, JONSON, Volp., II vii 8
1616, DR., no. 2466
1639, CL., p. 329
1664, J. WILSON, Cheats, V v, p. 73

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WOMEN will have their wills - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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