Give a THING and take again and you shall ride in hell's wain

Meaning & Analysis

If you give something and then reclaim it, you commit a mean-spirited breach that merits damnation—figuratively, you’ll be carried to hell in its wagon.

Insights

Irrevocable gift

The saying enforces the rule that a true gift changes hands for good; recalling it voids the moral act and brands the giver as faithless.

Strings-attached control

Giving and snatching back functions as domination, keeping the recipient insecure and indebted; the proverb condemns this manipulation as devilish.

Broken covenant

A gift is a tiny covenant binding giver and receiver in trust; taking it back profanes that bond and invites poetic justice.

Moral accounting

The ‘hell’s wain’ image casts retraction as a debit that must be paid; cosmic transport to punishment balances the ledger of bad faith.

Speech vs. deed

It warns against ostentatious generosity for show: promises or presentations without permanence are theatrics in service of self.

Wain as curse

‘Wain’ (wagon) makes the threat concrete: a public carting-off to damnation. The folkloric vehicle turns private meanness into a spectacle of deserved disgrace.

Child-law pedagogy

Like its sister chant (‘Give a thing and take a thing, that is the devil’s gold ring’), this was playground jurisprudence teaching property norms early: a gift is not a loan by stealth.

Gift-economy ethos

Anthropological gift exchange presumes freedom and permanence; rescinding a gift collapses the reciprocity cycle and poisons future exchange by eroding trust.

Shakespearean echo

Twelfth Night needles the same vice—‘give a dog, and in recompense desire my dog again’—spotlighting the social contempt reserved for the snatcher-back.

Theological color

Invoking ‘hell’ frames retraction not merely as breach of etiquette but as sin against fidelity—exaggeration that polices conscience through sacred dread.

Rhetorical Devices

Protasis–apodosis

The ‘Give … and … you shall …’ structure encodes cause and consequence, stamping the norm as a predictive law.

Rhyme and assonance

‘Again’ / ‘wain’ chime, giving the line chant-like stickiness suitable for oral transmission.

Metaphor

‘Hell’s wain’ personifies moral retribution as a vehicle, turning abstract judgment into a vivid scene.

Antithesis

Gift versus grab-back dramatizes the flip from virtue to vice in a single motion.

Colloquial gnomic tone

Simple diction and cadence make the maxim portable for everyday disputes over promises, favors, and presents.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

1678, RAY, p. 146

Shakespeare Citations

This is to give a dog, and in recompense desire my dog again.

TN, V.i

Cross References

Original Scan

Give a THING and take again and you shall ride in hell's wain - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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