Hot LOVE is soon cold

Meaning & Analysis

Love that begins with great intensity and passion tends to fade quickly, lacking endurance over time.

Insights

Instability of Passion

Implies that love sparked by sudden, intense emotion is often unsustainable and prone to quick collapse once initial excitement diminishes.

Emotional Volatility

Suggests that extreme emotional states—like passionate love—are inherently unstable and more susceptible to reversal, cooling into indifference or disillusionment.

Warning Against Impulsiveness

Serves as a caution against rushing into relationships driven by lust or enthusiasm, urging emotional moderation for lasting affection.

Folk Psychology of Love

Reflects a common folk belief that enduring love develops slowly and steadily, while love born of instant attraction is fleeting and unreliable—mirroring psychological research on attachment and emotional regulation.

Moral Didacticism

The proverb serves a moralizing function, reinforcing temperance and restraint in matters of the heart. It warns against the seductive danger of romantic extremes.

Cultural Rejection of Romantic Excess

In early modern literature and culture, impetuous passion was often portrayed as destructive. This proverb echoes that tradition, favoring constancy over intensity.

Temporal Fragility of Desire

Captures a universal human experience: the initial thrill of love often wanes with time, especially when it’s not grounded in deeper connection or mutual understanding.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

Contrasts 'hot' with 'cold' to emphasize the emotional reversal and reinforce the proverb’s warning about passionate impermanence.

Alliteration

The repetition of the 'h' and 'c' sounds in 'hot' and 'cold' creates a rhythmic and memorable phrase that enhances oral transmission.

Elliptical Simplicity

The brief, punchy structure omits verbs and conjunctions, increasing its proverbial force and making it easily adaptable in speech and writing.

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Transcription

Quotations

(As the comune prouerbe saythe) hote loue is soone colde.

1530, WHITFORDE, Wk. Householders, s. E3v

Hotte loue sone colde.

1546, HEY., I ii, s. A3

It is true thys prouerbe old, Hastye love is soone hot and soone cold.

c.1550, REDFORD, Wit and Science, p. 36

Gay love God save it,—so soone hotte, so soone colde.

1566-1567, UDALL, Roister D., IV viii 38

No looue so soon colde, as that is moste hot.

c.1565, W. WAGER, Enough Good as Feast, s. B3v

Hote wanton loue soone waxeth cold.

a.1578, SCOFF, Lady in C. Robinson et al. Handf. Pleas. Delights, p. 12

Cold coolis the lov quhilk kendlis over hote.

a.1598, FERGC., MS, no. 313
1611, DAV., Prov., no. 305

[As in 1546 Hey.].

1611, GRUT., no. 132

[As in 1546 Hey.].

1614, CAM., p. 307

Loue that's soon'st hot, is euer soonest cold.

1615, WITHER, Fidelia: Juv., II 571

[As in 1546 Hey.].

1616, DR., no. 1299

What friendship can last ever? hot loue, soone cold.

1616, WITHALS, p. 582
1639, CL., p. 28

[As in 1546 Hey.].

1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 8

[As in a1598 Ferg.].

1659, N.R., p. 49

[As in a1598 Ferg.].

1668, R.B., p. 16
1670, RAY, p. 46

Cold cools the Love that kendles so hot.

1721, KEL., p. 81

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