They are so LIKE that they are the worse for it

Meaning & Analysis

Two people (often relatives) resemble each other so strongly—particularly in faults or flaws—that the likeness proves detrimental.

Insights

Inherited Faults

Suggests that children or successors often inherit not only the appearance but also the shortcomings of their forebears, and may suffer the consequences of repeating their faults.

Burden of Resemblance

Highlights how extreme likeness can create expectations, stereotypes, or reputational damage—where one is judged not on personal merit, but on resemblance to another’s vices or failures.

Self-Perpetuating Flaws

Illustrates the idea that flaws tend to replicate themselves across generations or associations, particularly when those involved are unaware of or uncritical toward their similarity.

Familial Critique in Early Modern Drama

Frequently used in Renaissance and Restoration literature to critique dynastic inheritance, this proverb often carried a satirical edge—mocking how sons were expected to carry on the 'image' of their fathers, sometimes to mutual detriment.

Irony of Natural Resemblance

The proverb ironizes the positive cultural valuation of likeness, turning it on its head: being too much like someone, especially in character, is not flattering but damning.

Psychological Projection and Social Judgment

Reflects how society projects guilt, blame, or expectation based on similarity—suggesting that the more alike two people are, the more one may unfairly suffer for the other’s misdeeds or reputation.

Rhetorical Devices

Irony

The phrase subverts the usually positive connotation of resemblance by suggesting that it results in harm, creating a biting twist.

Epigrammatic Compression

Its tight, proverbial structure delivers a complex social critique with pith and punch, contributing to its memorability.

Antithesis

Contrasts the expectation of benefit in resemblance ('so like') with the unexpected result of detriment ('the worse for it'), enhancing rhetorical effect.

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Transcription

Quotations

Your eldest Son, Sir, and your very Image, (but he's so like you, that he fares the worse for't).

1637, FLETCHER AND MASSINGER, Elder Brother, II i, p. 12

He is so like him, that hee is the worse for it, and hee takes after his father.

1616, OVERBURY, Sergeant: Char., p. 163

All nurst of her owne teate and so like the mother they ware the worse againe.

a1640, J. DAY, Peregr., VI, p. 54
1678, RAY, p. 354

(that both are).

1732, FUL., no. 4959

Shakespeare Citations

It is yours; And, might we lay th’ old proverb to your charge, So like you ’tis the worse.

WT, II.iii

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