KA¹ me ka thee

Meaning & Analysis

Derived from the archaic verb 'ka' (to claw or stroke), the proverb literally means 'Claw me, and I will claw you'. It is a direct appeal for a reciprocal exchange of favors, often translated as 'one good turn asks another'.

Insights

Principle of Reciprocity

The proverb is a foundational expression of reciprocity, the principle that favors or services should be mutually exchanged. It underpins cooperative behavior, suggesting that assistance is given with the expectation of receiving something of similar value in return.

Cronyism and Immoral Collusion

It carries a strong negative connotation of cronyism and unethical collusion. The exchange of favors is not for the common good but for the private benefit of the parties involved, often to conceal wrongdoing, maintain corrupt power structures, or engage in mutual flattery.

Transactional Relationships

The proverb frames human interaction in purely transactional terms, reducing relationships to a series of calculated exchanges. It implies a pragmatic but cynical view that even acts of kindness are motivated by the anticipation of a future reward.

Critique of Social Corruption

The proverb's use in 16th and 17th-century literature, particularly in works by Chapman, Jonson, and Marston, reveals its frequent application as a critique of political and social corruption. It cynically describes the transactional networks of mutual obligation that sustained courtly power and influence, often through immoral or hypocritical means.

Psychology of Self-Interest

The proverb embodies a transactional worldview, suggesting that human relationships are fundamentally based on calculated self-interest rather than altruism. This reflects a pragmatic, if cynical, psychological perspective on motivation, where every action is an investment expecting a return.

Social and Economic Critique

While the core meaning is simple reciprocity (as in 'One good turn asks another'), its historical usage reveals a darker, more critical dimension. Kelly's 1721 annotation, noting it's used when the rich feast each other while ignoring the poor, shows its role in highlighting social stratification and elite collusion.

Rhetorical Devices

Parallelism

The proverb's 'Ka me, ka thee' structure uses perfect syntactical parallelism, where the identical grammatical form of both clauses mirrors the theme of balanced, reciprocal action.

Archaism

The use of the archaic word 'ka' (claw) lends the proverb a historical weight and a slightly raw, grasping connotation that is softened in modern equivalents like 'scratch my back'.

Conciseness

The extreme brevity and rhythmic, monosyllabic structure make the proverb highly memorable and impactful, functioning almost as a mantra for transactional behavior.

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Transcription

Quotations

Ka me, ka the, one good tourne askth an other. Nought woon by the tone, nought won by the tother.

1562, HEY., Dial., I xi, p. 34

Yea, sayde the hostler, ka me, ka thee: yf she dooe hurte me, I wyll displease her.

1566-1567, SKELTON, Mer. Tales, in Shak. Jest-Bks., II 19

To colour hate with kindnes, to defraud In priuate, those in publique we applaud: To keepe this rule, kaw me and I kaw thee.

1595, LODGE, Fig for Momus, p. 12

Thou feed'st my Lecherie, and I thy Couetousnes: Thou art Pandar to me for my wench, and I to thee for thy coosenages: K. me, K. thee, runnes through Court and Countrey.

1605, CHAPMAN, JONSON, AND MARSTON, Eastward Ho, II ii 14

Ka me, ka thee, one thing must rub another, English loue Scots, Welshmen loue each other.

1611, L. BARRY, Ram-Alley, IV, s. Fiv
1611, GRUT., no. 170
1614, CAM., p. 309

Ka me and I will ka thee.

1616, DR., no. 1775

Ka me, ka thee, one good turn requireth another.

1616, WITHALS, p. 565

Ka me, and ka thee.

1639, CL., p. 324

*One good turn asketh another.

1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 3

Ka me and I'll ka thee.

1670, RAY, p. 110

Kae me, and I'll kae thee. *Spoken when great People invite and feast one another, and neglect the Poor.

1721, KEL., p. 227

Cross References

Annotations

  1. claw, i.e., serve, oblige

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