My own FLESH and blood

Meaning & Analysis

A direct reference to one’s biological relatives, most commonly a child or close family member—someone who shares your own body and lineage.

Insights

Kinship and Inheritance

The phrase signifies the deep, inalienable bond of blood relations, carrying implications of shared identity, responsibility, and loyalty.

Unconditional Attachment

It often evokes the natural affection, obligation, or pain associated with family, emphasizing ties that persist regardless of circumstance.

Historical Symbolism

Rooted in ancient concepts of kinship, the proverb draws on the symbolic power of 'flesh' and 'blood' as the literal means of life and continuity. In early modern literature, it reinforces both emotional attachment and the tragedies of familial conflict.

Literary and Cultural Resonance

Appearing in Shakespeare and numerous Renaissance works, the phrase dramatizes dilemmas of loyalty, betrayal, and identity. Its recurrence in English drama and law attests to its centrality in notions of inheritance and familial duty.

Psychological Dimensions

The proverb reflects the psychological weight of family connections: pride, guilt, responsibility, and the pain of familial discord all attach uniquely to 'one’s own flesh and blood.'

Rhetorical Devices

Synecdoche

'Flesh and blood' stands for the whole person, specifically a relative, using part-for-whole substitution to emphasize the organic nature of kinship.

Repetition

The phrase’s rhythmic pairing ('flesh and blood') adds emphasis and memorability, creating a sense of completeness and totality.

Metaphor

Employs bodily imagery as a metaphor for the invisible, enduring bonds of family.

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Transcription

Quotations

To her owne childe, to her owne fleshe and bloud.

1565, NORTON AND SACKVILLE, Gorbuduc, IV ii, s. F3

Think'st thou I loue my sonne? is he my flesh? Is he my bloud, my life?

1609, JONSON, Case Is Altered, V ix 7

A shoo-maker sell his flesh and blood.

1600, DEKKER, Shoe. Hol., p. 66

She's thine owne flesh, blood, and bone.

1630, DEKKER, 2 Hon. Whore, p. 119

Your maides .. would haue me turne Hannibal, and eate my owne fish, and blood.

1616, JONSON, Ev. Man in Hum., III iv 52

I should be unnatureall To my owne flesh, and blood, would I not thank him.

1640, JONSON, Magn. Lady, V x 98

Then was this mariage .. Especially 'gain' mine owne flesh, and blood.

1640, JONSON, Tale Tub, II i 12

Shakespeare Citations

If thou be Launcelot, thou art mine own flesh and blood.

MV, II.ii

I say my daughter is my flesh and my blood.

MV, III.i

She being none of your flesh and blood, your flesh and blood has not offended the King, and so your flesh and blood is not to be punish'd by him.

WT, IV.iv

Cross References

Original Scan

My own FLESH and blood - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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