FAIR is not fair but that which pleases

Meaning & Analysis

Literally, the proverb states that something is not truly fair (beautiful or good) simply by objective standards, but only if it is pleasing to the beholder or recipient.

Insights

Subjectivity of Beauty

Asserts that beauty and value are determined by individual perception or satisfaction, not by universal or fixed standards.

Relativity of Judgment

Highlights that what is considered 'fair' or praiseworthy is often shaped by context, personal preference, or utility—what pleases is fair, even if it defies conventional criteria.

Value Beyond Appearance

Suggests that qualities such as kindness, generosity, or usefulness may be deemed 'fair' (good, worthy) regardless of external appearance, pointing to a deeper or more pragmatic sense of value.

Historical Symbolism

The proverb draws on Renaissance debates about beauty, virtue, and value, echoing the Italian origins noted in its annotation. Its recurrence in European literature signals a long-standing challenge to absolute or superficial standards.

Literary and Cultural Resonance

Shakespeare and Massinger both employ the idea that generosity or worth can confer fairness—'A giving hand, though foul, shall have fair praise'—emphasizing action or intention over mere appearance.

Psychological Dimensions

Psychologically, the proverb touches on cognitive bias and the tendency to see value in what benefits or pleases us, subtly critiquing self-interest and the malleability of taste.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

The direct contrast between 'fair' as a static quality and 'that which pleases' as subjective emphasizes the tension between objectivity and perception.

Ellipsis

The compressed phrasing omits explicit explanation, inviting the listener to interpret and apply the proverb’s meaning.

Allusion

References to 'fair' and 'pleasing' invoke broader cultural and philosophical debates, connecting the proverb to a tradition of questioning received standards.

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Transcription

Quotations

I guess the reason; A giving hand is still fair to the receiver.

1655, MASSINGER, Bashful Lover, I i, p. 392
1640, HERB., no. 488
1658, EDMONDSON, Comes Fac. in Via, p. 234
1659, N.R., p. 32
1664, COD., p. 193

That is not handsome, which is handsome, but that is handsome, which pleaseth.

1666, TOR., It. Prov., 20, p. 204
1670, RAY, p. 9

Shakespeare Citations

A giving hand, though foul, shall have fair praise.

LLL, IV.i

Faults that are rich are fair.

Tim, I.ii

Cross References

  • See DÜr., II, no. 323.

Annotations

  1. This is an Italian Prov.

Original Scan

FAIR is not fair but that which pleases - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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