As loving (tame, patient) as a DOVE (pigeon)

Meaning & Analysis

This proverb is a simile comparing a person's disposition to that of a dove, which is perceived as being exceptionally gentle, affectionate, calm, and non-aggressive.

Insights

Embodiment of Peace and Love

The dove metaphorically represents an idealized form of love and peace. To be 'as loving as a dove' is to embody gentleness, loyalty, and tranquility, suggesting a character that is a source of comfort and peace.

Innocence and Purity

The comparison extends to themes of innocence and purity. A person described as being 'as tame as a dove' is seen as harmless, without malice or deceit, embodying a simple and virtuous nature free from corruption.

Virtue of Patience

The proverb highlights the virtue of steadfast patience. Shakespeare's image of the 'female dove' patiently waiting for her eggs to hatch ('golden couplets') enriches the metaphor to include quiet endurance and nurturing resilience.

Gentleness as Vulnerability

The very gentleness and tameness celebrated in the proverb can also imply a state of vulnerability. A 'dove-like' nature may be perceived as naive or ill-equipped to handle a harsh and predatory world.

Religious and Mythological Symbolism

The dove's symbolic meaning is deeply rooted in Christian iconography, where it represents the Holy Spirit, peace (as in Noah's Ark), and purity. This religious association elevates the proverb beyond a simple animal comparison, infusing it with connotations of divine grace and virtue.

Folkloric Biology

The ancient belief, referenced in the cross-reference 'Doves have no gall', that doves lacked a gallbladder—the organ thought to produce anger (choler)—provided a physiological 'proof' for their gentle nature, embedding this characteristic in folkloric and early scientific thought.

Literary Reinforcement

Shakespeare's frequent use of this simile, from describing modesty in 'The Taming of the Shrew' to Bottom's comical oxymoron of roaring 'as gently as any sucking dove' in 'A Midsummer Night's Dream', demonstrates and reinforces the dove's universally understood symbolism of gentleness in the Elizabethan mindset.

Psychological and Cultural Ideals

The proverb reflects a cultural idealization of passive virtues like patience and gentleness. By associating these traits with the dove, it subtly promotes a model of behavior that is non-confrontational and serene, which can carry gendered undertones, as seen in Shakespeare's reference to the 'female dove'.

Rhetorical Devices

Simile

The proverb is a direct simile, using the structure 'as...as' to explicitly compare a human quality (love, patience) to the culturally understood nature of a dove, making the meaning clear and emphatic.

Symbolism

The dove serves as a potent and universally recognized symbol for peace, love, and innocence. The proverb's effectiveness relies entirely on this shared cultural symbolism.

Epithet

The adjectives 'loving', 'tame', and 'patient' function as stock epithets for the dove, creating a fixed, memorable, and culturally reinforced association.

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Transcription

Quotations

Columbae cum avolant, fallunt caeteras pernicitate volatus: cum sedent, nihil mitius, aut simplicius.

— Erasmus, Adagia 845E

He is as loving a worme againe as a dove.

1566-1567, UDALL, Roister D., III ii 48

As tame as a pigeon.

1616, DR., Gentlenes, no. 843

Shakespeare Citations

For she's not froward, but modest as the dove.

Shr, II.i

But I will aggravate my voice so that I will roar you as gently as any sucking dove.

MND, I.ii

Mild as a dove.

PP, 7.1

As patient as the female dove When that her golden couplets are disclos'd.

Ham, I.i

Cross References

Original Scan

As loving (tame, patient) as a DOVE (pigeon) - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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