Be as be may is no BANNING (Be as be may)

Meaning & Analysis

Saying “let it be as it will be” is not a curse or prohibition; it expresses reluctant consent rather than forbidding (with ‘banning’ = cursing/forbidding).

Insights

Reluctant consent

A speaker grants leave without enthusiasm. It marks a boundary between opposition and allowance: you may proceed, though I am not delighted.

Stoic acceptance

Events will unfold; fighting every tide wastes strength. The phrase models composure before what lies beyond one’s control.

Non-interference

By pledging not to ‘ban,’ the speaker promises not to obstruct. It is a social truce: I won’t bless this, but I won’t block it.

Face-saving assent

The formula allows agreement without full endorsement, preserving dignity and relationships—useful where open dissent would bruise pride.

Prudence over passion

It counsels temperate response: withhold imprecations and rash judgments until outcomes clarify.

Lexical lineage

‘Banning’ in Scots/early English means cursing or forbidding (cf. ‘ban’ as prohibition or anathema). Thus the line contrasts mere resignation (‘be as be may’) with active malediction, distinguishing allowance from curse.

Literary currency

Forms like “Be that as be may,” “Let be, as may be,” and “Be as be may, no banning is” recur from Skelton and Spenser to proverbial collections, and Shakespeare’s “be it as it may be” echoes the same shrugging assent—an idiom of long, everyday pedigree.

Consent spectrum

Social life runs on gradations of yes and no. This formula sits between hearty approval and outright refusal, signaling ‘licensed but not lauded’—a practically useful middle.

Psychology of control

By naming limits—‘as it may’—the speaker reallocates attention from fantasy control to adaptive coping, reducing anger and the urge to retaliate with curses or bans.

Cross-cultural kin

It aligns with later idioms like “let be,” “so be it,” or “it is what it is”: all quiet the impulse to anathematize when resistance is futile or costly.

Rhetorical Devices

Polyptoton

Repetition and variation of ‘be’ (‘Be … be may’) creates rhythmic inevitability, enacting the very yielding it counsels.

Litotes

“Is no banning” denies the stronger act (cursing) to imply a mild, permissive stance—agreement by negation.

Parataxis

Short, coordinate clauses present acceptance without subordination or explanation, giving the line aphoristic snap.

Alliteration

The clustered /b/ sounds—‘Be,’ ‘be,’ ‘BANNING’—lend mnemonic beat to the compact formula.

Ellipsis

Cause and context are omitted; the hearer supplies the situation of reluctant assent, which amplifies portability.

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Transcription

Quotations

Be that as be maye.

1542-1548, SKELTON, Elynour Rum., l. 261: Wks., I 103

Be as be maye.

1530, PALS., p. 444b
1546, HEY., II i, s. F3

Bee as bee maye.

c.1563, Jack Juggler, s. B2v
1564, BULLEIN, Dial. Fever, p. 22
1568, FULWELL, Like Will to Like, s. D4v

Let be, as may be.

1579, SPENSER, Shep. Cal. March, l. 58, p. 16
1594, LYLY, Mother B., II ii 21

Be as be may, no banning is.

1611, DAV., Prov., no. 20
1623, CAM., p. 267
1639, CL., s.v. Contemptus, p. 72
1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 15

Be as it may be is no banning.

1670, RAY, p. 59

Be it so, is no banning.

1721, KEL., p. 75

Shakespeare Citations

But be it as it may be, I will marry thee.

AYL, III.iii

Cross References

Annotations

  1. Spoken when we unwillingly give our consent to a Thing.

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