Be fair conditioned and eat BREAD with your pudding¹

Meaning & Analysis

Keep a pleasant, even temper and pair rich fare (blood pudding/sausage) with plain bread—i.e., temper indulgence with staple food.

Insights

Moderation in appetite

Urges balancing luxury with simplicity: let the staple ‘bread’ curb the richness of ‘pudding,’ so desire does not outrun prudence.

Good company manners

Counsels amiable behavior at table—no fussing, no greed—accept what is served and eat considerately so the meal remains harmonious.

Frugality and stretch

Suggests making costly provisions go further by padding them with basics; the wise household stretches the pot by pairing delicacy with staple.

Temper and tempering

Links character to diet: a ‘fair-conditioned’ (even-tempered) person also ‘tempers’ rich pleasures with plain ones, practicing balance in taste and temperament alike.

Equity in sharing

Hints that adding bread ensures everyone gets a portion of the pudding; moderation safeguards communal fairness.

Staple vs. relish

In early modern fare, bread was the staple; sausages/puddings were relishes. Pairing them encodes a subsistence logic: staples carry the meal, dainties accent it.

Humoral echo

Rich, ‘hot’ meats were thought to inflame humors; bread ‘cools’ and steadies. The proverb fuses dietetics with ethics: balance keeps both body and behavior in tune.

Hospitality etiquette

As a guest rule, it discourages pickiness and ostentation. Contented eating signals gratitude; demanding more ‘pudding’ marks one as ill-bred.

Moral arithmetic

The line’s economy—stretching costly items—mirrors moral economy: thrift and good temper preserve household peace better than sensation-seeking.

Bread as virtue token

Bread often metonymizes necessity and steadiness; attaching it to ‘pudding’ insists that pleasure should be grounded in sufficiency, not divorced from it.

Rhetorical Devices

Imperative parataxis

Two clipped commands—‘Be fair conditioned’ / ‘eat bread with your pudding’—deliver character and conduct as paired instructions.

Metonymy

‘Bread’ stands for simplicity and prudence; ‘pudding’ for indulgence, letting foods carry ethical counsel.

Antithesis (implied)

Sets humble staple against rich relish to dramatize the balance between necessity and pleasure.

Alliterative echo

Soft b/p sounds (‘be,’ ‘bread,’ ‘pudding’) give the maxim a mellow, table-talk cadence suited to its domestic wisdom.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

1678, RAY, p. 79.

Annotations

  1. blood pudding, sausage

Original Scan

Be fair conditioned and eat BREAD with your pudding¹ - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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