Every APE thinks his puppy the fairest

Meaning & Analysis

Even though an ape’s offspring may be perceived by others as unattractive, the ape sees it as the most beautiful—each parent loves and admires their own child regardless of how others might judge it.

Insights

Parental Partiality

Reflects the natural bias of parents, who tend to view their own children in an overly favorable light, often ignoring or downplaying flaws seen by outsiders.

Self-Love and Possessiveness

Extends beyond parenting to capture a broader human tendency to value what one owns or creates, not necessarily for its objective merit, but because of personal attachment.

Subjective Judgment

Reveals how beauty, quality, or value is often perceived not objectively but through the lens of personal involvement, pride, or affection.

Cross-Cultural Archetype

This motif appears in many cultures—such as the crow or owl thinking their young the fairest—illustrating a universal human inclination toward favoritism and self-justification, often leading to comic or ironic misjudgment.

Animal as Mirror for Human Vanity

By projecting this tender, self-deceptive affection onto apes, the proverb humorously deflates human vanity—suggesting that even creatures known for ugliness and folly share in this blind pride.

Literary Commentary on Bias

Used in literary and rhetorical contexts to warn against self-serving judgment, especially in matters of aesthetics, merit, or love—highlighting how personal closeness distorts perception.

Rhetorical Devices

Anthropomorphic Irony

By attributing aesthetic judgment to an ape, the proverb achieves comic effect, mocking both the ape’s obliviousness and the human tendency it reflects.

Universalizing Structure

The formula 'every X thinks his Y the fairest' lends the proverb a timeless and flexible structure, allowing for its adaptation across contexts while retaining its satirical core.

Contrast and Hyperbole

Contrasts the perceived ugliness of the ape’s young with the hyperbolic praise it bestows—emphasizing the distortion of love through comic exaggeration.

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Analyzed with gpt-4o on July 10, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

(As the ape dooth his young ones) I thinke mine the properest of them all.

1596, HARINGTON, Metam. Ajax, p. 87

(her puppie).

1611, COT., s.v. Femme
1659, N.R., p. 29

An Ape thinks her young one the fairest.

1666, TOR., It. Prov. I, p. 26

Cross References

Original Scan

Every APE thinks his puppy the fairest - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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