Of WOMEN and fish the middle is best

Meaning & Analysis

The proverb literally suggests that the best part of both a fish (the meaty, less bony center) and a woman (her torso or midsection) is the middle.

Insights

Objectification and Commodification

Compares women to fish—an animal to be consumed—thereby reducing them to physical objects whose value is determined by their most desirable 'parts'.

Valuation of Fertility

Metaphorically prizes the 'middle' of a woman's life (prime childbearing years) or her physical center (the womb), linking her worth directly to reproductive capability.

Sexual Reductionism

Carries a coarse sexual connotation, reducing a woman's entire being to her physical and sexual attributes centered on her torso.

Aversion to Extremes

Can be interpreted as a preference for moderation, valuing a woman who is neither too young nor too old, reflecting a desire for a predictable and manageable partner.

Patriarchal Worldview

Reflects a historical patriarchal perspective where women were viewed as property or resources, valued primarily for their bodies, beauty, and reproductive utility, much like livestock or food.

Dehumanizing Language

The direct equation of women with animals is a powerful example of dehumanizing language used to enforce social hierarchies and justify the treatment of women as inferior.

Cultural Misogyny

This proverb serves as a cultural artifact, preserving and transmitting a misogynistic ideology under the guise of common-sense folk wisdom. The cross-reference to "the belly of a wench" reinforces this crude anatomical assessment.

Psychological Objectification

Psychologically, the proverb exemplifies the process of objectification, where a person's humanity and individuality are ignored in favor of a narrow focus on their physical utility or sexual function.

Rhetorical Devices

Crude Analogy

The direct and jarring comparison between women and fish serves to objectify and dehumanize, making the proverb's point through a memorable but offensive parallel.

Synecdoche

'The middle' stands in for the entirety of a woman's worth, reducing her complex identity to a single physical region associated with sexuality and fertility.

Parallelism

The balanced grammatical structure 'Of X and Y...' creates a simple, memorable rhythm that allows the offensive comparison to be easily recited and passed down.

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Transcription

Quotations

1659, HOW., Fr. Prov., p. 13

(is the best).

1685, CODRINGTON, Coll. Proverbs, 781, p. 119

Cross References

Original Scan

Of WOMEN and fish the middle is best - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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