A WOMAN conceals what she knows not

Meaning & Analysis

The only secret a woman can successfully keep is one she does not know. Any information shared with her will inevitably be revealed.

Insights

Symbol of Indiscretion

The proverb serves as a metaphor for the perceived inherent untrustworthiness of a specific group, using gender as a stand-in for anyone considered naturally indiscreet or prone to gossip.

The Paradox of Secrecy

It explores the paradox of secrecy itself. The moment a secret is shared, it becomes vulnerable. The only truly safe secret is one that remains entirely unknown to others, making ignorance the only guarantee of silence.

The Nature of Information

The statement functions as a metaphorical warning about the uncontrollable nature of information. Once released, knowledge (the 'secret') has a tendency to spread, and entrusting it to others is always a risk.

Historical Misogyny

This proverb is a stark reflection of historical misogyny, deeply embedded in the literature of the 16th and 17th centuries. It perpetuates the stereotype of women as inherently gossipy and incapable of discretion, a trope used to justify their exclusion from positions of trust and power.

Rhetorical Strategy

The saying functions as a cynical piece of advice disguised as a universal truth. By framing the inability to keep secrets as a fundamental aspect of a woman's nature, it rationalizes the act of withholding information from them, reinforcing patriarchal control over knowledge.

Psychological Projection

Psychologically, the proverb projects the universal anxiety of sharing secrets onto a specific group. It simplifies the complex dynamics of trust and betrayal into a prejudiced generalization, revealing more about the speaker's fears than about the subject. Shakespeare's use of it in '1 Henry IV' is a playful, teasing jab that nonetheless relies on this well-known stereotype.

Cultural Bias

The proverb's cynical humor lies in its paradoxical logic. The only way to ensure a woman's silence is to keep her in ignorance, highlighting a deep-seated cultural distrust. The cross-references to similar proverbs underscore how widespread this particular gendered bias was.

Rhetorical Devices

Irony

The proverb is built on biting irony. It feigns to compliment a woman's ability to 'conceal' something, but the qualification 'what she knows not' immediately transforms the statement into a harsh criticism of her inability to keep any actual secret.

Hyperbole

The statement is a sweeping generalization, or hyperbole, that claims all women are incapable of keeping secrets. This exaggeration is used for rhetorical effect to create a memorable and impactful, albeit prejudiced, piece of 'wisdom'.

Aphorism

Structured as a concise and witty statement, the proverb functions as an aphorism. Its brevity and definitive tone make the cynical observation easy to remember and repeat, contributing to the perpetuation of the stereotype.

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Transcription

Quotations

Who will commit any thing to a womans tatling trust, who conceales nothing but that shee knowes not?

1589, NASHE, Anat. Absurdity, Wks., I 14

Women and bairnes can keip counsell weil of that quhilk thay knaw not.

a1598, FERG., MS, no. 1484

How may I rest assured [that you will conceal a secret]? —Truly thus—do not tell it me.

1613-1614, MARSTON, Parasitaster, III i 171

The onely way to make thee keepe my councell, Is not to tell thee.

1623, WEBSTER, Duch. Malfi, V ii 260
1640, HERB., no. 1024

Women and bairns keeps counsell of that they know not.

1641, FERG., no. 882
1658, [EDMONDSON], Comes Fac. in Via, p. 190
1659, N.R., p. 12

Women and bairns keep counsell of that they ken not.

1668, R.B., p. 56
1670, RAY, p. 50
1687, MIEGE, s.v. Woman

Women and Bairns lain [conceal] what they know not.

1721, KEL., p. 347

Women conceal all that they know not.

1732, FUL., no. 5806

Shakespeare Citations

Constant you are, But yet a woman; and for secrecy, No lady closer, for I well believe Thou wilt not utter what thou dost not know.

1H4, II.iii

Cross References

Original Scan

A WOMAN conceals what she knows not - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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