Long-tongued WIVES go long with bairn

Meaning & Analysis

A nonsensical folk belief that talkative or gossipy wives experience unusually long pregnancies.

Insights

Premature Disclosure

It is a critique of those who announce their projects, designs, or intentions long before they are ready for execution, suggesting a long and tedious wait will follow the premature announcement.

Talk Versus Action

The proverb contrasts excessive talk with effective action, implying that individuals who boast about their intentions are often slow to bring them to fruition.

Vulnerability of Plans

Announcing a project too early (the 'long tongue') exposes it to unnecessary risk, scrutiny, and potential failure during its long, vulnerable development period (the 'long pregnancy').

Social Corrective

The proverb serves as a cultural warning against boasting or revealing plans before they are mature, using a memorable domestic metaphor to enforce discretion and patience.

Gendered Stereotype

Its specific focus on "wives" and "bairn" (a child) reflects historical gender biases, framing excessive or premature speech as a stereotypically female failing tied to domestic life.

Psychological Insight

It identifies the human tendency to seek premature validation by talking about goals, while cautioning that this can create unnecessary pressure and a long, anxious period of waiting for results.

Regional Origin

The use of 'bairn', a word of Scottish and Northern English origin, grounds the proverb in a specific regional folk tradition, as confirmed by its appearance in Kelly's collection of Scottish proverbs.

Rhetorical Devices

Extended Metaphor

The entire proverb uses the biological process of a long pregnancy as a metaphor for the lengthy and uncertain period between announcing a plan and achieving it.

Alliteration

The repetition of the 'l' sound in 'long-tongued' and 'long' enhances the proverb's rhythm and memorability.

Vivid Imagery

It creates a strong, concrete image of a talkative woman and a delayed birth to represent the abstract idea of premature announcements and their consequences.

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Analyzed with gemini-2.5-pro on August 11, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

1670, RAY, p. 49

*Apply'd to those who discover their Projects, Designs, and Intentions, long before they are put in Execution.

1721, KEL., p. 239

Original Scan

Long-tongued WIVES go long with bairn - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
Scan courtesy of HathiTrust Digital Library.
Used under CC BY-NC 3.0.

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