TRICK for trick and a stone in your foot besides, quoth one pulling a stone out of his mare's foot when she bit him on the back and he her on the buttock

Meaning & Analysis

A man, bitten by his mare while removing a stone from her hoof, bites her back and remarks that he has repaid like with like—‘trick for trick’—yet he still suffers the extra misfortune of the painful stone.

Insights

Costly retaliation

Tit-for-tat may restore parity but often leaves the avenger worse off; payback adds a ‘surcharge’—time, dignity, or risk—beyond the original harm.

Missing the cause

Aggression can spring from underlying pain (the mare’s stone). Punishing the symptom while ignoring the root problem merely compounds suffering.

Self-degradation

Stooping to the offender’s level—biting back—wins a moment of rough justice yet diminishes the self and fails to solve anything.

Perils of helping

Even benevolent acts invite backlash when the sufferer is in pain or fear; good intentions require prudence, boundaries, and technique.

Worldly cynicism

Life rarely balances neatly; one may get ‘measure for measure’ and an extra knock besides, so expect friction costs in conflicts.

Wellerism form

The structure—gnome plus ‘quoth one … when …’—is a classic Wellerism: a witty tag grounded in a concrete, ironic scene that twists the meaning and sticks in memory.

Lex talionis reframed

‘Trick for trick’ echoes talionic justice (‘eye for eye’) and Shakespearean ‘measure for measure,’ but the add-on ‘stone besides’ satirizes strict reciprocity by noting real-life overcosts.

Equine realism

A stone in the hoof is a common cause of a horse’s sudden bite or kick. The vignette teaches husbandry-like ethics: diagnose pain first; punishment without inquiry is misdirected.

Psychology of retaliation

Reactive aggression offers short-term relief yet carries hidden losses—reputation damage, escalation, moral licensing—that function like the ‘stone besides.’

Conflict design

Better than pure tit-for-tat is ‘tit-for-tat with forgiveness’: address the cause, de-escalate, and protect yourself—remove the stone—rather than mirror harm.

Rhetorical Devices

Wellerism

Attaches a proverbial clause to a specific speaker and circumstance (‘quoth one … when …’), creating situational irony and comic vividness.

Parallelism

‘Trick for trick’ uses balanced repetition to crystallize the idea of exact return.

Irony

The helper becomes the biter; payback coincides with an unintended self-penalty, inverting expectations of justice.

Bathos

Low, bodily imagery (biting a mare’s buttock) deflates moral grandstanding and exposes the pettiness of revenge.

Metonymy

The ‘stone in your foot’ stands for unseen, compounding costs that accompany retaliation or mishandled aid.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

(pulling out a stone out of his Mares hoof, when she bit him upon the back, and he her upon the buttock)

1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 4

The English say, Trick for Trick, and a stone in her foot-stile.

1666, TOR., Prov. Phr., s.v. Otta, p. 125
1670, RAY, p. 217

Original Scan

TRICK for trick and a stone in your foot besides, quoth one pulling a stone out of his mare's foot when she bit him on the back and he her on the buttock - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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