He PRAISES who wishes to sell

Meaning & Analysis

Someone who offers excessive praise is often doing so to entice others into buying or accepting what they are selling.

Insights

Self-Interest in Flattery

This proverb highlights that praise is frequently motivated by personal gain rather than genuine admiration—compliments may be a sales tactic, not sincere opinion.

Manipulation and Persuasion

Praise is employed as a persuasive tool, a rhetorical device intended to influence another’s judgment, especially in commerce, relationships, or negotiations.

Distrust of Motivated Praise

Warns listeners to be skeptical of praise that serves an ulterior motive, suggesting that commendation is often calculated rather than heartfelt.

Historical Symbolism

Since antiquity, merchants and intermediaries have been caricatured as excessive praisers of their wares—so much so that their praise loses credibility. The proverb reflects longstanding suspicions of the transactional nature of flattery.

Literary Resonance

Shakespeare and his contemporaries repeatedly use the motif of seller’s praise as a symbol of insincerity and commercial cunning, as in 'Love’s Labour’s Lost' and 'Troilus and Cressida.'

Psychological Dimensions

Addresses the human tendency to trust positive feedback, while reminding us to question the sincerity and source—especially when praise aligns with the praiser’s self-interest.

Cultural Parallels

Similar proverbs exist globally (e.g., 'A merchant’s praise is not to be trusted'), showing universal wariness toward praise linked to personal advantage.

Rhetorical Devices

Irony

The proverb’s apparent endorsement of praise is actually an ironic warning, alerting us to the self-serving motives behind compliments.

Metonymy

‘Sell’ is used metonymically for any situation in which personal gain is at stake—not only literal commerce but also social or romantic exchanges.

Ellipsis

The compact phrase omits the object of praise, making the warning general and applicable to many contexts.

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Transcription

Quotations

What's his price . . He'll tell [sell?] himself he has so prais'd his shape.

1620, BEAUMONT AND FLETCHER, Philaster, I, p. 79

I thinke you would gladly sell whom you have so lately bought, else you would never have spoake him thus.

1636, T. HEYWOOD, Chall. for Beauty, III, p. 36
1639, CL., p. 319

You praise her, as if you had a mind to part with her.

1672, WYCHERLEY, Love in Wood, III, p. 106

It has no other Father but you.

1721, KEL., p. 216

when People commend what they are selling.

*Spoken

Shakespeare Citations

Beauty is bought by judgment of the eye, Not utt'red by base sale of chapmen's tongues.

LLL, II.i

Fie! painted rhetoric—O, she needs it not! To things of sale a seller's praise belongs.

LLL, IV.iii

But we in silence hold this virtue well, We'll not commend what we intend to sell.

Tro, IV.i

I will not praise that purpose not to sell.

Son, 21.14

That love is merchandiz'd whose rich esteem-ing The owner's tongue doth publish everywhere.

Son, 102.3

Do not smile at me that I boast her off, For thou shalt find she will outstrip all praise And make it halt behind her . . Then, as my gift, and thine own acquisition worthily purchas'd, take my daughter.

Tmp, IV.i

Cross References

Original Scan

He PRAISES who wishes to sell - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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