A PLEASURE long expected is dear enough sold (bought)

Meaning & Analysis

If one must wait a long time for a pleasure, the effort, anticipation, or cost involved is already sufficient; the pleasure has been 'paid for' by the long delay.

Insights

Cost of Anticipation

The proverb reflects that the emotional cost of long anticipation—waiting, hoping, yearning—can make the eventual pleasure feel dearly purchased, as if the longing itself is a kind of price.

Diminished Returns

It suggests that prolonged expectation can sap the actual joy of attainment, so that what is finally received may not justify the effort and waiting invested.

Time as Currency

It equates time and psychological effort with monetary cost, treating patience, longing, and delay as forms of payment for eventual satisfaction.

Historical Symbolism

In early modern and classical literature, the frustration of deferred gratification is often a source of melancholy or irony. The proverb uses commercial language—'sold,' 'bought,' 'dear'—to quantify the abstract experience of waiting, suggesting a marketplace of emotions and desires.

Literary and Cultural Resonance

Linked to proverbs like 'He loses his thanks that promises and delays,' the saying is echoed in many cultures as a warning against the frustrations of deferred hopes. Literary works, especially love poetry and drama, often dwell on the bittersweet pain of longing.

Psychological Dimensions

Modern psychology recognizes that anticipation can sometimes outweigh fulfillment; the mind invests so much in the prospect that actual experience may disappoint. The proverb thus captures a subtle cost/benefit calculation of desire, waiting, and emotional investment.

Rhetorical Devices

Metaphor

Treats pleasure and expectation as commodities to be bought and sold, lending concreteness to abstract feelings.

Inversion

The phrase reverses the normal perspective—suggesting that the 'cost' is incurred before the pleasure, rather than after—making its wisdom more striking.

Conciseness

The proverb’s terse structure packs a complex emotional and economic insight into a brief, memorable form.

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Analyzed with gpt-4.1 on July 10, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

A pleasure is bought too deare, When it is looked for too long.

1596, DEL., s. N8v

We buy too deerely meat we stay long for; or, a little meat long stayed for's deerely bought; (The like may be said of any benefit, or fauor).

1611, COT, s.v. Attendu
1640, HERB., no. 862
1659, N.R., p. 18

Pleasure long expected is dear enough bought.

Ibid., p. 86

A civility long expected, is half repaid.

1666, TOR., It. Prov. 36, p. 204

Cross References

Original Scan

A PLEASURE long expected is dear enough sold (bought) - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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