When PLAY (game, jest) is best it is time to leave

Meaning & Analysis

The proverb advises that one should end a game, jest, or enjoyable activity while it is at its peak, rather than risk decline, boredom, or trouble by continuing too long.

Insights

Wisdom in Restraint

It metaphorically champions the value of self-control, teaching that knowing when to stop—especially at the height of enjoyment—is a mark of wisdom and foresight.

Ephemeral Nature of Pleasure

The saying reflects on the fleeting nature of pleasure and success, encouraging us to depart before joy sours, or jest turns to seriousness or offense.

Avoidance of Downfall

It implicitly warns that prolonging pleasure often invites loss, embarrassment, or unintended consequences, and that true satisfaction lies in leaving on a high note.

Historical Symbolism

Early modern and classical wisdom frequently cautioned against the dangers of excess, whether in games, feasting, or jest. The proverb draws on this tradition, echoing the principle that restraint preserves dignity and good fortune.

Literary and Cultural Resonance

Shakespeare and other dramatists echo this idea, using the motif of timely departure in both literal games and the 'games' of wit and love. Similar advice is found across European languages and in etiquette literature, highlighting the broad appeal of graceful exit.

Psychological Dimensions

The proverb acknowledges the human difficulty in recognizing the right moment to stop, cautioning against the psychological impulse to overreach, which can transform delight into disappointment or harm.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

By juxtaposing 'best' with the time to 'leave,' the proverb sharpens its message about the value of quitting while ahead.

Paradox

There is a paradoxical wisdom in leaving at the moment of greatest pleasure, prompting reflection and lending the saying its memorable quality.

Ellipsis

Omitting detailed explanation, the proverb’s brevity and ambiguity make it broadly applicable and memorable.

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Transcription

Quotations

When game is best, is tyme to lete.

a.1500, PROV. WISDOM, 1. 50

When the play is best it is best to leave.

a.1598, FERG., MS, no. 1452

Our hunting sport is at the best, my lord. And when a thing is at the best, time to leave off then.

1606, CHAPMAN, Gentl. Usher, I i 59

Tis good leauing at play when it is at the fairest; or, tis good to leaue (when one hath got) at play.

1611, COT., s.v. Ieu

When the game is at the best, best leave.

1659, HOW., Br. Prov., p. 30

(it is best to lear).

1668, R.B., p. 45

Leave off while the Play is good.

1721, KEL., p. 233

Lest, if it be continued, it may come to earnest.

*Note

Spoken also by People of Age and Gravity, when young People jest upon them, intimating that they will not bear it.

Leave a Jest, When it pleases you best.

1732, FUL., no. 6357

Shakespeare Citations

The game was ne'er so fair, and I am done.

R3, I.iv

Away, be gone; the sport is at the best.

R3, I.v

Cross References

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