The one cannot PISS but the other must fart

Meaning & Analysis

When one person does something (even something trivial or bodily), the other must immediately respond with an action of their own—often in close mimicry or competition.

Insights

Mutual Imitation

The proverb humorously points to a pair so closely associated that whatever one does, the other feels compelled to do something similar or parallel, often to the point of absurdity.

Rivalry or Competition

It can also signify a petty or reflexive rivalry, where every action by one is met by a matching or answering action from the other, regardless of importance.

Inseparable Companionship

Suggests the kind of close friendship or partnership where neither can act independently—each movement or gesture triggers a response from the other.

Bodily Humor and Social Satire

The proverb uses coarse, bodily functions to satirize the pettiness or intimacy of some relationships—whether between friends, spouses, or rivals—where no act is too small to provoke a response.

Cultural Commentary

Such expressions reflect early modern England's comfort with earthy humor and serve as social critique, poking fun at both excessive intimacy and pointless rivalry.

Psychological Dynamic

The saying captures the psychological phenomenon of codependence or reflexive competition, where one’s self-definition is tied to constant reaction to another.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

Pits two similar but distinct bodily actions against each other, underlining both their parallelism and their triviality.

Colloquialism

Employs coarse, everyday speech for comic effect and relatability, making the lesson memorable.

Hyperbole

Exaggerates the degree of imitation or rivalry to the point of absurdity, intensifying the humor and critique.

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Transcription

Quotations

My husband and he be so great, that the ton Can not pisse but the tother must let a fart.

1546, HEY, II v, s. Hiv
1611, DAV., Prov., no. 292.

Original Scan

The one cannot PISS but the other must fart - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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