Neither KITH (kiff) nor kin

Meaning & Analysis

To be completely unrelated to someone, having no connection either through friendship and community ('kith') or by family ties ('kin'). It signifies a total stranger or an outsider.

Insights

Complete Alienation

The phrase metaphorically describes a state of complete social alienation or estrangement. It signifies being an absolute outsider, disconnected from all forms of community and familial support systems.

Absence of Obligation

It can symbolize a lack of social obligation or responsibility. A person who is 'neither kith nor kin' is owed no duty of care, loyalty, or support based on pre-existing relationships.

Ideal of Impartiality

The term can define a state of perfect impartiality. By having no personal or familial connections, an individual is positioned to act without favoritism, bias, or vested interest.

Linguistic Evolution

The word 'kith' originally meant 'country' or 'homeland', so the phrase once signified a complete lack of connection to both place and people. Its evolution to mean 'friends and neighbors' preserves the core idea of social connection, but loses the original, broader sense of national belonging.

Psychology of Belonging

The proverb taps into the fundamental human need for belonging. To be 'neither kith nor kin' describes a state of profound social exile, lacking the two primary sources of identity and security: the community ('kith') and the family ('kin').

Impartiality and Objectivity

In legal and social contexts, being 'neither kith nor kin' establishes a person as a neutral third party, free from the biases of personal or familial relationships and thus capable of impartiality.

Rhetorical Devices

Alliteration

The repetition of the hard 'k' sound in 'kith' and 'kin' creates a memorable, rhythmic, and emphatic phrase, which has contributed significantly to its longevity.

Archaism

The use of the archaic word 'kith' lends the phrase a sense of historical weight and formality. Its meaning is largely inferred from its pairing with 'kin'.

Rhetorical Negation

The 'Neither... nor...' construction is a correlative conjunction that creates a powerful and totalizing negation, emphasizing the absolute lack of any connection.

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Transcription

Quotations

Leuyng countree, father, mother, brother, kyf and kyn?

1560, E. MORE, Def. Women, l. 433, p. 129

A Kith or kin, cognatio.

1570, LEVINS, Manip. Vocab., p. 150

Be pinched by lending, for kiffe nor for kin.

1573, TUSSER, 500 Points Husb., 10, p. 22

They forsake Mother, Prince, Countrey, Religion, Kiffe and Kinne.

1584, R. WILSON, Three Ladies Lond., s. A2v

[1611] A maid that's neither kiff nor kin to me.

1630, MIDDLETON, Chaste Maid in Cheaps., IV i 85

Cross References

  • See St., no. 1140.

Original Scan

Neither KITH (kiff) nor kin - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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