Ask my FELLOW (companion) if I be a thief

Meaning & Analysis

Literally, this proverb mocks the act of seeking character references or testimony from someone closely associated with the accused—in this case, asking a thief’s own companion to vouch for their innocence.

Insights

Bias and Collusion

Warns against trusting endorsements or testimony from those who share interests, allegiances, or guilt with the person under scrutiny. It highlights the futility of seeking an honest verdict from a biased or complicit party.

Corruption of Testimony

Serves as a metaphor for situations in which judgment or evidence is compromised by partiality, suggesting that testimony from one’s associates is inherently suspect and likely self-serving.

Self-Justification

Illustrates how individuals or groups often seek validation from within, using their own circle to absolve themselves of wrongdoing, thereby avoiding external or impartial judgment.

Historical Legal Satire

The proverb originates in contexts where character or guilt was established through communal testimony. Its presence in 16th and 17th-century texts reflects social skepticism toward the fairness of such evidence, especially when provided by one's peers or accomplices.

Universal Skepticism

Across cultures, proverbs like this caution against circular validation, paralleling the Latin phrase 'testis unus, testis nullus' and the broader human suspicion of insular communities policing their own.

Psychological Projection

Reveals a tendency for people to seek affirmation from those who mirror their own actions, attitudes, or guilt—suggesting an instinctive desire for self-justification and group protection against external scrutiny.

Cultural and Literary Echoes

The proverb recurs in early English drama, sermons, and collections, and has equivalents in Scottish and continental traditions, reflecting a persistent cultural recognition of the dangers of partial witness and self-serving alliances.

Rhetorical Devices

Irony

The central irony is that the very person least qualified to judge—an accomplice—is being asked to testify, exposing the absurdity of such appeals.

Dialogue/Direct Speech

The proverb’s phrasing mimics direct speech or mock interrogation, lending it a colloquial sharpness and making it memorable in both oral and written tradition.

Metonymy

'Fellow' or 'companion' stands for anyone sharing complicity, making the saying broadly applicable to diverse forms of biased judgment.

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Transcription

Quotations

That wer (quoth she) as of my truth to make preefe, To axe my fellow, whether I be a theefe.

1546, HEY., II v, s. H4

Thieves and thieves' fellows be all of one sort. They were wont to say Ask my fellow if I be a thief.

1549, LATIMER, Serm., 9, p. 139

(We haue an other propre English prouerbe. . Aske my).

1552, TAV., f. 65
1604, MARLOWE, Faustus, I ii 21

Neither of your companions, for that's aske my fellow if I be a theefe.

1590, R. WILSON, Three Lords and Three Ladies Lond., s. C1

This is right, aske my felow there if I be a thiefe.

1591, I Troublesome Reign John, s. B2

What is the Cat, a deuill: then remember the prouerbe, aske his fellow if he be a theefe.

1593, G. GIFFORD, Dial. conc. Witches, s. E3

Speir [ask] at Jock theeff my marrow [companion] if I be ane leall [true] man.

a.1598, FERG., MS, no. 1188

(companion whether I).

1611, GRUT., no. 46

(companion whether I).

1614, CAM., p. 303

This is somewhat to the Prouerbe, Aske the sons, if the Father be a theefe.

1615, T. ADAMS, England's Sickness I, Wks., p. 316
1616, DR., no. 1162
1639, CL., s.v. Fraus, p. 127

Ask the father, if he thinketh his sonne a thief.

1659, HOW., Br. Prov., p. 39

(whether I am).

1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 5

To produce domestick Witnesses, viz. such as are partial; the English say, Ask my Fellow whether I be a Thief.

1666, TOR., Prov. Phr., s.v. Testimonii, p. 215

[As in a.1598 Ferg.].

1668, R.B., p. 47

(companion).

1670, RAY, p. 169

Speer at Jack Thief if I be a leal Man.

1721, KEL., p. 285

Spoken when Men appeal for a Character to them who are their Associates, or as bad as themselves.

*Note

Ask my Companion, if I'm a Thief.

1732, FUL., no. 817

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