To drink of the same CUP

Meaning & Analysis

To literally drink from the same physical vessel as another person.

Insights

Shared Experience and Fate

The proverb signifies the act of sharing the same experience, condition, or fate as another person, implying a deep connection or common lot.

Common Suffering

It often refers specifically to enduring the same hardship, trial, or punishment. The 'cup' frequently symbolizes a portion of suffering that must be accepted.

Solidarity and Communion

To 'drink of the same cup' is to express solidarity or communion with someone, accepting their circumstances as one's own and binding oneself to their destiny.

Equal Treatment or Justice

The phrase can also imply a form of retributive justice, suggesting that an individual will receive the same treatment or consequences they have imposed on others.

Ritual and Communal Symbolism

The act of sharing a cup carries deep historical significance, symbolizing trust, communion, and shared pacts in rituals from weddings to the Eucharist. This proverb draws on that resonance, transforming a simple act into a profound statement of shared destiny.

Biblical Resonance

The metaphor is heavily influenced by biblical language, particularly Christ's reference to the 'cup' of suffering (Matthew 26:39). This imbues the proverb with a sense of solemnity, sacrifice, and unavoidable fate, elevating it from a mere shared experience to a profound trial.

Psychology of Empathy

Psychologically, the proverb distinguishes between sympathy and empathy. It represents a move from observing another's fate to actively participating in it, reflecting a deep-seated human desire for solidarity and connection in the face of hardship.

Rhetorical Devices

Symbolism

The 'cup' serves as a powerful symbol for one's assigned lot in life, a specific destiny, or a significant trial that must be endured.

Metaphor

The physical act of drinking is used as a potent metaphor for the abstract concept of undergoing an experience or accepting a particular fate.

Allusion

The proverb's meaning is greatly enriched by allusions to well-known biblical narratives of suffering and sacrifice, adding layers of solemnity and gravity.

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Transcription

Quotations

Eodem bibere poculo.

— Erasmus, Adagia 327E

And shall I see my sweet Sinnatus slain, and not drink of the same cup?

1576, PETTIE, Pet. Pal., I 42

Nowe shalt not thou laugh Philautus to scorne, seeing you haue both druncke of one cup.

1578, LYLY, Euph. Anat. Wit, p. 238

That I mote drinke the cup whereof she dranke.

1596, SPENSER, F.Q., V i 15

Be sure she taste of the same cup.

1605, R.F., Sch. Slov., I 771, p. 41

The rest will drink too (Believe me, Sir) of the same Cup.

1652, FLETCHER, Wild Goose Chase, V i, p. 376

There's your errour now! Yo' ha' druncke o' the same water.

1640, JONSON, Magn. Lady, V i 7

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To drink of the same CUP - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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