With a BIT and a bob, as they feed apes

Meaning & Analysis

To treat someone the way keepers feed apes: give a tiny morsel (“bit”) and at the same time deliver a cuff or slap (“bob/box on the ear”).

Insights

Humiliating charity

Help is dispensed in a way that shames or hurts the recipient. The giver’s token ‘bit’ is nullified by the accompanying ‘bob,’ exposing generosity as a stage for domination.

Carrot-and-stick

The proverb encapsulates mixed reinforcement—reward laced with punishment—as a strategy of control. Compliance is extracted by pairing crumbs with cuffs.

Power theater

Small favors dramatize who holds resources while the blow reminds who holds force. The act performs hierarchy as much as it provisions need.

Dehumanizing view

By likening people to apes, the saying indicts treatment that reduces dependents to trainable animals, stripping them of dignity and voice.

Stingy pragmatism

It names a calculus that rations aid to the minimum while using roughness to deter claim-making—a miser’s method of managing demands.

Lexical note

‘Bit’ is a small mouthful; ‘bob’ (or ‘box’) is a slap. The tight pairing spotlights the moral dissonance of feeding and striking in one motion.

Showmen and keepers

Early modern street entertainments often featured apes; handlers used a mix of titbits and cuffs to manage tricks. The proverb lifts this familiar spectacle into social critique.

Labor and patronage

Artisans, servants, and dependents knew the pattern: meager pay sweetened with insults. The line aligns with the sibling proverb ‘a bit and a knock,’ crystallizing resentments against mean-spirited patrons.

Psychology of control

Intermittent reward bound up with pain fosters anxious compliance: the hope of a ‘bit’ keeps one enduring the ‘bob,’ a cycle recognizable in exploitative relationships.

Ethical measure

True charity nourishes without injury. By staging aid plus harm, the proverb becomes a moral test: do our gifts uphold dignity, or do they purchase obedience?

Rhetorical Devices

Binomial formula

‘Bit and bob’ (or ‘box’) forms a balanced, catchy pair that packages a complex social dynamic as a compact trope.

Alliteration

The b-echo (‘bit,’ ‘bob,’ ‘box’) supplies mnemonic grip and a percussive feel that mimics the very ‘knock’ it names.

Simile

‘As they feed apes’ concretizes the critique through a vivid, observable practice, sharpening the proverb’s sting.

Concrete imagery

Food and a slap—bodily, sensory elements—translate abstract injustice into a scene one can see and feel.

Irony

An act labeled ‘feeding’ simultaneously harms; the contradiction heightens the moral indictment and memorability.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

When Fencers fees, are like to apes rewards, A peece of breade, and therwithal a bobbe.

1576, GASCOIGNE, Steel Glass, p. 172

As men feed Apes: with a bit and a boxe on the eare.

1590, R. HARVEY, Plain Percevall, p. 4
1639, CL., p. 93

You feed me like an Ape, with a bit and a knock.

1672, WALK., 55, p. 10

A bit and a knock [or bob] as men feed apes.

1678, RAY, p. 226

A Bit and a Knock, as Men feed Apes.

1732, FUL., no. 14

Cross References

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With a BIT and a bob, as they feed apes - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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