In TIME of prosperity friends will be plenty, in time of adversity not one among twenty

Meaning & Analysis

When fortune smiles, would-be friends abound; when trouble comes, almost none remain—perhaps not even one out of twenty.

Insights

Fair-weather friendship

Prosperity attracts companions seeking benefit or reflected status; adversity strips these ties away, exposing how contingent they were.

Adversity as sieve

Hard times function as a filter that separates loyal affection from opportunistic association, revealing the grain of true friendship.

Social economy

In patronage and exchange networks, ties thicken around resources; when resources vanish, so does the social orbit that depended on them.

Prudential counsel

Expect volatility in one’s circle; cultivate a few proven alliances rather than counting on the crowd that gathers in good times.

Moral testing

Adversity checks character—both yours and theirs—inviting a shift from transactional bonds to covenantal ones grounded in fidelity.

Long literary echo

From the morality play *Everyman* (“in adversity be full unkind”) to Elyot’s “time being troublous thou arte all alone,” Milton’s ‘they swarm… in adverse withdraw,’ and Shakespeare’s warning about the ‘hollow friend,’ the tradition keeps dramatizing how fortune governs fellowship.

Biblical undertone

Proverbial wisdom aligns with Scripture’s observation that wealth ‘gathers many friends’ while poverty isolates; the line moralizes friendship as fidelity to persons, not their fortunes.

Cross-cultural maxim

Latin compresses it to *amicus certus in re incerta cernitur*—‘a sure friend is seen in unsure times’—showing the adage’s broad human recognition beyond English proverb lore.

Psychology of BIRGing and CORFing

People ‘bask in reflected glory’ during your success and ‘cut off reflected failure’ when you falter; status contagion makes prosperity magnetic and misfortune socially radioactive.

Patronage politics

Early modern courts ran on favors and credit; when a patron’s star waned, clients melted away. The proverb doubles as a worldly memo about the fragility of power-based networks.

Ethical takeaway

Treat plenty as the time to test and strengthen the few who will endure scarcity; let adversity prune the rest without bitterness.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

‘Prosperity’ versus ‘adversity,’ ‘plenty’ versus ‘not one’ sharpen the moral contrast and make the lesson memorable.

Parallelism

Twin clauses beginning with ‘In time of…’ form a balanced isocolon that carries the reader from one condition to its opposite.

Hyperbole

‘Not one among twenty’ exaggerates to persuade, conveying rarity of true friends with numeric punch.

Consonance and near rhyme

The echo of ‘plenty/twenty’ and p-sounds in ‘prosperity/plenty’ add mnemonic music to the line.

Gnomic present

Stated as a general truth, it sounds authoritative and universally applicable.

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Analyzed with gpt-5.0-thinking on November 14, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

It is sayd in prosperyte men frendes may fynde Whiche in aduersytye be full vnkуnde.

a.1520, Everyman S, s. A6v

While fortune the fauoureth frendes thou hast plentie, The tyme beinge troublous thou arte all alone.

1531, ELYOT, Governor, II xii, II 164

For though riches gather many friends, the poore is separated from his neighbours.

1630, T. ADAMS, Cosmopolite, Wks., p. 688
1659, HOW., Eng. Prov., p. 20
1670, RAY, p. 11

In prosperous days They [friends] swarm, but in adverse withdraw their head Not to be found, though sought.

1671, MILTON, Samson Ag., l. 191, p. 343

In time of Prosperity our Friends are always about us, but in time of Adversity they presently leave us in the lurch.

1687, MIEGE, s.v. Friend

(not one in twenty).

1732, FUL., no. 6394

Shakespeare Citations

For who not needs shall never lack a friend, And who in want a hollow friend doth try, Directly seasons him his enemy.

Ham, III.ii

Cross References

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