To slip one's NECK out of the collar

Meaning & Analysis

The proverb describes the act of escaping from an obligation, burden, or punishment—like removing one’s neck from an animal’s yoke or collar to gain freedom.

Insights

Avoidance of Responsibility

Conveys the idea of someone evading duties or obligations, particularly those they had previously accepted or were expected to bear.

Escape from Control

Symbolizes breaking free from authority, constraints, or oppressive situations—resisting imposed discipline or domination.

Clever Evasion

Highlights cunning or strategic withdrawal—where an individual subtly distances themselves from blame, commitment, or involvement.

Yoke Imagery and Labor

The metaphor draws from agricultural imagery, particularly yoked animals. In early modern contexts, the ‘collar’ signifies enforced labor or subjugation—slipping out implies liberation from toil or servitude.

Shakespearean Usage and Emotional Resonance

In Shakespeare’s *Romeo and Juliet* and *Richard III*, the phrase carries emotional and political weight—expressing both weariness and defiance. It encapsulates personal revolt against imposed suffering or shared burden.

Moral Ambiguity

While it can signal freedom, the proverb also suggests irresponsibility or betrayal—abandoning others to bear the consequences alone, especially in collective endeavors or partnerships.

Rhetorical Devices

Metaphor

Transforms physical labor imagery into a figure for social, emotional, or moral obligation, making abstract burdens viscerally tangible.

Allusion

The use of 'collar' and ‘yoke’ alludes to Biblical and classical notions of servitude and suffering, enhancing the phrase’s gravitas in religious or political discourse.

Antithesis

Implied contrast between submission (remaining in the collar) and rebellion (slipping out), heightening the proverb’s emotional and rhetorical force.

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Quotations

And I canne tell you, he hadde shrunke his heade oute of the coller of those insupportable paynes long before that Princesse dyed.

1581, PETTIE, Civ. Conv., III, II 95

Drawe not your head out of the coller, sayde Lorde Vespasian.

1586, YOUNG, Civ. Conv., IV, II 165

Those that could . . shrink their heads out of the collar.

c1603, DEKKER, Wonderful Year: Plague Pamph., p. 34

He draweth his necke out of the coller.

1616, DR., no. 1963

Not to seem to be the person that did the mischief, to lye behind the hedge, or slip ones neck out of the collar.

1666, TOR., Prov. Phr., s.v. Mano, p. 98
1678, RAY, p. 350

Shakespeare Citations

Ay, while you live, draw your neck out of collar.

Rom, I.i

Now thy proud neck bears half my burthen'd yoke, From which even here I slip my wearied head.

R3, IV.iv

Cross References

  • See Sm., p. 542.

Original Scan

To slip one's NECK out of the collar - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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