Sound LOVE is not soon forgotten

Meaning & Analysis

True, deep, and genuine love remains in memory for a long time and is not easily erased or replaced.

Insights

Enduring Impact

The proverb asserts that authentic love leaves a lasting imprint on the heart and mind, shaping one’s memories and affections for years—even a lifetime.

Irreplaceability

It suggests that strong, sincere bonds are not readily substituted or diminished, and even when circumstances change, the emotional trace of ‘sound love’ persists.

Contrast with Superficial Attachment

By specifying ‘sound’ (true, healthy) love, the saying distinguishes deep connection from fleeting passion or infatuation, which are much more easily forgotten.

Literary and Cross-Cultural Echoes

The theme recurs in early modern English and European proverbs: ‘Who so heartely loueth, hardly forgetteth,’ ‘Who loves well forgets late,’ and ‘Sound love and true is never forgotten.’ Such sayings recognize the universal human experience of lasting attachment.

Psychological Perspective

Modern psychology affirms that powerful emotional experiences, especially those rooted in true attachment, form some of our most persistent and influential memories, affecting future relationships and identity.

Ideal of Lasting Love

Paired with related proverbs such as ‘A perfect love does last eternally,’ this saying upholds lasting affection as a moral and emotional ideal—contrasting with more cynical or transient views of love.

Rhetorical Devices

Epigrammatic Simplicity

The proverb’s brevity and clarity give it the resonance and authority of a maxim, easily remembered and quoted.

Alliteration

The repeated ‘s’ sounds in ‘sound’ and ‘soon’ enhance the proverb’s musicality and memorability.

Antithesis

By contrasting ‘sound love’ (lasting) with the implied alternative (superficial love, easily forgotten), the proverb sharpens its message about the difference between true and fleeting attachment.

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Analyzed with gpt-4o on July 10, 2025

Transcription

Quotations

Who so heartely loueth, hardly forgetteth.

1591, STEP., p. 159
1611, COT., s.v. Aimer

Who loves well forgets late.

1623, WOD., p. 511

Who loves well is long a forget-ting.

1659, HOW., Fr. Prov., p. 6

[As in 1623 Wod.]

1659, HOW., Span. Prov., p. 17
1659, N.R., p. 91

Sound love and true is never forgotten.

1664, COD., p. 210

Who loves heartily, hardly forgets.

1666, TOR., It. Prov., 23, p. 6
1687, MIEGE, s.v. Love

Cross References

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Sound LOVE is not soon forgotten - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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