HUNTING, hawking, and paramours, for one joy a hundred displeasures

Meaning & Analysis

Participating in aristocractic blood sports (hunting, falconry) and illicit romantic affairs yields a disproportionate amount of trouble, cost, and frustration compared to the fleeting moments of happiness they provide.

Insights

The asymmetry of hedonism

The proverb illustrates a negative cost-benefit analysis of pleasure-seeking. It suggests that high-stakes, passionate pursuits are inherently volatile, requiring immense effort and enduring significant failure for only brief flashes of success.

Uncontrollable variables

All three examples involve trying to master living, unpredictable entities (wild animals, birds of prey, and human lovers). The metaphor highlights the futility and anxiety of pinning one's happiness on things that cannot be fully controlled.

The burden of privilege

These are specifically luxury vices. The saying serves as a critique of the 'good life,' revealing that wealth and leisure do not guarantee contentment but rather introduce new, complex forms of misery.

The Triad of Nobility

Hunting, hawking, and courtly love were the defining pastimes of the medieval and early modern aristocracy. By grouping them together, the proverb targets a specific social class and lifestyle, stripping away the romanticized veneer of the courtier to reveal the stress and disappointment beneath.

The precariousness of Hawking

Hawking (falconry) was notoriously high-maintenance. Hawks were expensive, fragile, easily lost, and difficult to train. Including this specific sport emphasizes the fragility of the 'joy'—a hawk might fly perfectly once and then be lost forever in the next moment, a perfect analog for the fickleness of a lover.

Scottish Moralism

The proverb appears in Scottish collections (Ferguson, Kelly). Kelly (1721) explicitly interprets it as a warning against 'unlawful Pleasures' and 'unseasonable Recreations.' This aligns with the darker, more pragmatic tone of Scottish wisdom literature, which often viewed frivolity with suspicion.

The definition of 'Paramour'

The term 'paramour' implies an illicit or extra-marital lover. The 'hundred displeasures' likely refer not just to romantic spats, but to the specific anxieties of secrecy, scandal, jealousy, and the social fallout of adultery.

Rhetorical Devices

Tricolon

The list of three items ('Hunting, hawking, and paramours') creates a cumulative effect, categorizing the three great temptations of the era into a single bucket of disappointment.

Antithesis

The sharp numerical contrast between 'one joy' and 'a hundred displeasures' mathematically demonstrates the poor return on investment of these activities.

Hyperbole

The ratio of 1:100 is an exaggeration used to forcefully dissuade the listener from these pursuits by emphasizing the overwhelming weight of the negative.

Alliteration

The pairing of 'Hunting' and 'hawking' uses soft aspirate sounds to link the two sports rhythmically before introducing the human element.

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Transcription

Quotations

(Hunting, hawking, paramours).

a1598, FERG., MS, no. 533
1641, FERG., no. 362.
1668, R.B., p. 25.

Hunting, and Hawking, and Paramours, For one Joy, hath a hundred Displeasures.

1721, KEL., p. 162

is in the old Scottish Collection, I have not heard it used. It signifies the Mischief of unseasonable Recreations, and unlawful Pleasures.

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HUNTING, hawking, and paramours, for one joy a hundred displeasures - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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