FRIENDS (Men) may meet but mountains never (never greet)

Meaning & Analysis

Unlike mountains or hills, which never physically come together, people—especially friends or acquaintances—can and do meet, sometimes unexpectedly.

Insights

Possibility of Reunion

Emphasizes the likelihood that people, even after long separation or against the odds, may cross paths again, suggesting that human connection transcends physical and situational barriers.

Flexibility of Human Nature

Contrasts the rigidity and immobility of mountains with the agency and adaptability of people, who can move, change, seek reconciliation, or pursue relationships.

Optimism and Hope

Conveys a sense of hopefulness—no matter the distance or the circumstances, friendship and human interaction remain possible, sometimes even inevitable.

Classical and Erasmusian Roots

The proverb appears in Erasmus’s 'Adagia' and classical literature, expressing a longstanding belief in the unpredictability and resilience of human relationships, in contrast to the unyielding separation of nature’s features.

Shakespearean and Literary Resonance

Shakespeare riffs on the theme in 'As You Like It,' reflecting both the improbability of some meetings and the extraordinary circumstances under which friends may encounter each other. Literary sources often invoke this proverb to explore fate, coincidence, and the social fabric.

Implied Social Commentary

The variant annotation—'Two haughty persons will seldom agree together'—points to a deeper layer: while physical mountains never meet, pride or stubbornness in people can create similar barriers to reconciliation.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

Sets up a sharp contrast between inanimate, immovable mountains and the animate, mobile nature of people, heightening the proverb’s message of human possibility.

Imagery

Uses vivid physical imagery—mountains and meeting friends—to anchor the proverb in tangible experience and make its lesson memorable.

Metaphor

Employs mountains as metaphors for obstacles, stubbornness, or separation, with meeting representing social connection and reconciliation.

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Transcription

Quotations

Mons cum monte non miscetur.

— Erasmus, Adagia 792D

Hylles do neuer mete, but acquayntaunce dothe often.

1530, PALS., p. 635a

It is sene often that men mete now and than, but so do hylles neuer.

1548, R. BARNES, Meeting Dr. Barnes and Dr. Powell, s. A1

It is an olde saying, that mountains and hills neuer meet, But I see that men shall meet, though they doo not seek.

1568, FULWELL, Like Will to Like, s. B2

Men may meete though mountaines cannot.

1590, R. WILSON, Three Lords and Three Ladies Lond., s. C4v

Men may meit bot montaines may not.

a.1598, FERG., MS, no. 1040

Two men may often meet, but mountaines neuer.

1611, COT., s.v. Deux

Two mountaines can neuer meete, but two friends may oft meete.

1616, DR., no. 796

(but hils and mountaines neuer).

1616, WITHALS, p. 565

I found the Prouerbe true, that men haue more priuiledge then mountaines in meeting.

1618, J. TAYLOR, Penniless Pilg., Wks. F., p. 142
1639, CL., p. 25

(never greet).

1670, RAY, p. 94
1672, WALK., 78, p. 43

(Men).

1681, ROB., p. 760

Shakespeare Citations

It is a hard matter for friends to meet; but mountains may be remov'd with earthquakes, and so encounter.

AYL, III.ii

Cross References

  • See DÜR., I, no. 173.

Annotations

  1. Two haughty persons will seldom agree together.

Original Scan

FRIENDS (Men) may meet but mountains never (never greet) - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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