AGE (Winter) and wedlock tame both man and beast

Meaning & Analysis

Both advancing age (or harsh winter) and marriage are said to subdue or moderate the behavior and temperament of both humans and animals.

Insights

Civilizing Forces

The proverb metaphorically portrays aging and marriage as natural agents of taming, curbing wild impulses and imposing restraint, structure, and maturity on even the most unruly temperaments.

Loss of Vitality and Passion

It implies that the energies of youth and instinct—whether lust, ambition, or rebellion—are subdued over time by life's trials, especially those associated with winter (hardship) and wedlock (responsibility).

Transition to Stability

Suggests a passage from passionate chaos to calm order, where age and marriage transform raw impulse into settled behavior—particularly in men, often figured as the ‘beast’ being tamed.

Shakespearean Echoes of Seasonal Discipline

In *The Taming of the Shrew*, Shakespeare echoes the proverb’s sentiment with a nod to ‘winter’ as a taming force. Cold and hardship metaphorically align with marriage in their disciplining power.

Patriarchal Humor and Social Commentary

The proverb fits within a patriarchal tradition that treats marriage as a civilizing institution—particularly for men. It carries a comic undertone, but also reflects early modern anxieties about aging, loss of autonomy, and the enforcement of domestic norms.

Marriage as Moral Institution

From a moralistic angle, the saying endorses marriage and aging as forces that produce virtue, self-control, and reliability—contrasting the untamed, impulsive nature of youth and bachelorhood.

Animal-Human Parity in Discipline

By including beasts in its scope, the proverb draws a satirical parallel between human and animal behavior, suggesting that both require external restraints to achieve social harmony.

Rhetorical Devices

Antithesis

Juxtaposes wildness ('man and beast') with taming forces ('age' and 'wedlock'), heightening the proverb’s dramatic contrast and reinforcing its moral logic.

Metaphor

Uses 'winter' and 'wedlock' as metaphors for external constraints—both natural and social—that bring about behavioral transformation.

Alliteration

The repetition of soft consonants (‘wedlock,’ ‘winter,’ ‘wild,’ ‘tame’) gives the phrase a rhythmic and memorable cadence, aiding its proverbial stickiness.

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Transcription

Quotations

(Marriage and want of sleepe tame)

1616, DR., no. 2395

(tames man and beast)

1623, CAM., p. 265

(tames man and beast)

1636, CAM., p. 290

(tame man and beast)

1639, CL., p. 279

(Wedding and ill wintering tames)

Ibid., p. 328

(tames man and Beast)

1659, N.R., p. 5

(Marriage and want of Sleep tame)

1664, COD., p. 205

(Wedding and ill wintering, tame)

1670, RAY, p. 47

(Wedding and ill wintering tame)

1721, KEL., p. 358

Shakespeare Citations

Is she so hot a shrew as she's reported? —She was, good Curtis, before this frost; but thou know'st winter tames man, woman, and beast.

Shr, IV.i

Cross References

Original Scan

AGE (Winter) and wedlock tame both man and beast - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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