Bear (Take, Suffer) this, bear (take, suffer) ALL

Meaning & Analysis

If you tolerate one offense or injustice, you open the door to enduring many more; accepting a single wrong invites further mistreatment.

Insights

Threshold of Tolerance

The proverb highlights how endurance of a single injury often sets a precedent for enduring continued harm. It warns that unchecked patience can signal permission to others to escalate their offenses.

Passive Submission and Power

It metaphorically critiques the dangers of passivity in relationships, social structures, or governance—how silence in the face of injustice may lead to deeper subjugation.

Loss of Autonomy

Suggests that by yielding once, one relinquishes a degree of agency or control, reinforcing cycles of domination, especially in personal or hierarchical dynamics.

Cultural Expectation of Assertion

The proverb reflects a cultural ideal that urges resistance to insult or injury. In early modern honor cultures, to ‘bear all’ was tantamount to cowardice or dishonor, especially for men.

Gender and Reputation

Shakespeare’s Rosalind in *As You Like It* delivers this phrase in the context of emotional injury and reputation, suggesting that for women, too, to 'bear' insult was to risk social invisibility or shame.

Moral Boundary Setting

Psychologically, the proverb recognizes the necessity of boundaries. If minor violations go unchallenged, they normalize further intrusion—an insight applicable in therapy, education, and leadership.

Rhetorical Devices

Anaphora

The repetition of 'bear,' 'take,' or 'suffer' intensifies the emotional and rhetorical force of the proverb, echoing the accumulation of injury it warns against.

Implied Consequence

Its conditional structure—if you bear this, you must bear all—creates a logical progression that dramatizes the danger of inaction, enhancing its persuasive power.

Ellipsis and Variability

The use of interchangeable verbs ('bear,' 'take,' 'suffer') enhances the proverb’s adaptability across contexts—physical, emotional, or social—while maintaining its thematic core.

toleranceinjusticesubmissionboundariespowerassertiveness
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Transcription

Quotations

Ah, Mosbie, Periurde beast, beare this and all.

1592, ARDEN F., s. G4v

Madam, pardon me and pardon all, No iustice but the great runnes with the small.

1593, PEELE, Edw. I X, s. G3v

Thanks Segasto; but yet you leveld at the crowne. —Maister, beare this and beare all.

1598, Muce-dorus, s. F2v

Rascall, take that and take all, do yee heare sir, I doe not meane to pocket vp this wrong.

1599, H. PORTER, Two Women Ab. viii, s. H1

Put up this and put up all.

1639, DELONEY, Gentle Craft II, p. 53

Will you endure such an injury? Faith put vp them and put vp anything.

1601, J. MANNINGHAM, Diary, Feb. 24, p. 24

Beare this, beare more.

1605, ARMIN, Fool upon Fool, Wks., p. 9

Nay slife, take this and take all: as I am a Gentleman borne, Ile be drunke, grow valiant, and beate thee.

1605, CHAPMAN, JONSON, AND MAR-STON, Eastward Ho, I i 142

Take him take all.

1605, DANIEL, Philotas, III iii, p. 144

Suffer this, sir, and suffer all.

c.1605, DEKKER, I Hon. Whore, p. 40

If I wink at this, let me be stone blind, or stoned to death: bear this, and bear all!

1608, MIDDLETON, Family Love, IV iii 138

'Slight, Captain, take this and take all.

1611, CHAPMAN, May Day, IV iv 72

Suffer this, and suffer all, to him againe.

1629, Wine, Beer, l. 159, p. 28

Easy injunctions, with a mischief to you! Suffer this and suffer all.

1655, MASSINGER, Guardian, I ii, p. 203

If suffer this take all? why the meanest Lady would neuer brooke an equall?

1634, T. HEY-WOOD, Maidenhead Well Lost, I, p. 109

Take this and take all.

1639, CL., p. 324

Shakespeare Citations

Bear this, bear all! She says I am not fair, that I lack manners.

AYL, IV.iii

Cross References

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Bear (Take, Suffer) this, bear (take, suffer) ALL - a scanned entry from Tilley's 1950 Dictionary of Proverbs.
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